"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
.Haha, that is awesome man. So where ARE the best places to find prostitutes? <nudge nudge>It's-Me said:The forum is under new management and it's going to be totally redesigned - That's right, instead of learning how to pick up woman, the new forum will show us where are the best places to find prostitutes
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't go into the discussion forum much anymore because its like 100-1, afc's-to non afc's and it's hard to get a good thread going. I just stay in the anything else forum most of the time.
I missed the old threads where we actually used to use our brains and have good legit debates that lead to mind opening answers/discussions. SS has improved my writing dramatically among many other things but it really hasn't done much for me lately.