"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaptainObvious#1

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Head games are for girls. Just keep hitting it man. Don't stress about it. Just keep doing what you're doing because it's obviously working.

Have some faith in yourself man, no need to ask on here about every little move you make.
 
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You banged her twice and now she is confused? HUH?? She is trying to be "misses appropriate" and not feel like the hor that she is by telling you that a man must 'commit' himself to me before I hor for them!!! Hors like this have 10 pimps in a few years but they feel justified in their hordoms because of the criteria that they have set!

Don't ask her why - what's wrong?? In fact say nothing and if you must say very little about it and proceed like a man - she can't undo and take back your sperm now that it is in her - the deed has been done!!!!

Don't chase her (no need - you already had her) or try to be her 'friend' again. Act disinterested when she uses the word 'confused' and don't have her explain herself - just act 'confused'!!!
 

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Okay but when she tells me shes confused and I act like I dont care shes going to think im an ******* only wanting to get laid from her , right ? Im trying to establish a real relationship with her , shes told me shes wished for a boyfriend like me. I dont know If I should keep waiting around for her to keep pressing me to be commited to her ( which is what I want ) Or if i should just tell her I want to be commited. I was also reading some of the articles a while back and I remember one that said the guy should never be the one to ask for that, So Im not sure. Im 22 years old and I could say with confidence that women find me attractive and intresting but when it comes to relationships I suck. The longest serious relationship I have kept is only 6 months. What do you guys think ?
 
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For a woman to say "I'm confused" says/means nothing - what in sam-hill is she confused about!!!!! "Confusion' undefined is confusing!!!!!!

You are the man - you dictate the agenda!!!!!! Whatever you say goes!!! Men are leaders - women are followers!! DICTATE!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So you have slept with this girl several times yet she is 'confused' about a relationship?

Congradulations, you now have a F#CKBUDDY
 
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