"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

What's more important to you? Your career or your sex life?

oldsalt

New Member
Joined
Aug 11, 2007
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Have you ever focussed on the former at the expense of the latter?

Sometimes I think that maybe not having a great women behind you can hinder your career progress in unforseen ways.

And that maybe putting sex first and job second actually makes sense because having a great sex life makes you more relaxed and able to succeed even more in your job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

blueguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2006
Messages
713
Reaction score
11
I can tell you my "career" had never been at its worst until I put the pvssy on a pedestal. I went from making $20-$30k/mo down to practically nothing. I had this idea that money doesn't matter as much as love. Let me tell you, that's an idea that eventually leaves once you come back to your senses when the girl is gone. :D And then basically, I had to start all over. I think it's important to have a balance and not let your emotions control you.
 

Don Juanito

New Member
Joined
Aug 9, 2007
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Location
Michigan
Career. Plenty of pun-tang out there... I have put it on a pedestal in the past too, but I learned.. girls come and go, your career is the same, always.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
6,366
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
When Henry Ford started hiring factory workers, he paid well enough to draw many more applicants than positions, so he was able to be selective in who he hired. He made employees agree to random unannounced inspections of their home. If one of these inspections found an "unhappy home," which meant if the husband and wife were fighting, it was cause for dismissal from the factory.
 

BingoBango

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2006
Messages
100
Reaction score
0
the way i see it, career is for food, game is for sex.

i can live without sex for one day, but i cant live without food for one day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
oldsalt said:
...And that maybe putting sex first and job second actually makes sense because having a great sex life makes you more relaxed and able to succeed even more in your job.
What if you're having problems at work? Would that effect your sex life?
 

danielzxc

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
462
Reaction score
5
Location
Australia
And that maybe putting sex first and job second actually makes sense because having a great sex life makes you more relaxed and able to succeed even more in your job.

Even better: a wife and a couple luverly kids. Then you'll have little choice but to succeed in your job -- or at least keep it.
 

traffic

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2007
Messages
72
Reaction score
2
Sex life.

I'd rather be a modest carpenter hitting every piece of ass that comes my way than a powerful lawyer working 70 hrs a week and floundering at the expensive clubs every weekend night.
 

Obsidian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2006
Messages
2,554
Reaction score
26
Location
TN
back in my AFC or early rAFC says I might've said women were more important. Now I say career. Any time you worship sex, you're putting women on an artificial pedastal. That is the path to chumpdom, whether you know a few pick-up techniques or not.
 

Alphamale1821

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2007
Messages
466
Reaction score
6
Location
Texas
My career is more important. My career is part of my package deal and so is women. If i just focused on women sure i would fuuck but eventually i wouldn't get anywhere because i wouldn't be advancing in higher society so i would be stuck in the same caliber of hot chicks but not high status hot chicks. However with my career i will **** hot chicks and the more i advance in my status the hotter the chicks will become and the hotter chicks i will attract. My career is my life, I have to work so i can be rich and be where i want to be in my life. Women are simply part of the deal the more i focus on my career and my lively hood the more women feel attracted to me and will know they are secure with me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

bigjohnson

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2007
Messages
2,438
Reaction score
38
A great career will go a long way in making sure you're showered in tail. That is all.
 

traffic

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2007
Messages
72
Reaction score
2
Alphamale1821 said:
My career is more important. My career is part of my package deal and so is women. If i just focused on women sure i would fuuck but eventually i wouldn't get anywhere because i wouldn't be advancing in higher society so i would be stuck in the same caliber of hot chicks but not high status hot chicks. However with my career i will **** hot chicks and the more i advance in my status the hotter the chicks will become and the hotter chicks i will attract. My career is my life, I have to work so i can be rich and be where i want to be in my life. Women are simply part of the deal the more i focus on my career and my lively hood the more women feel attracted to me and will know they are secure with me.
This is wrong on so many levels.

I've got friends who make 30K a year and have already hit the chicks that you think you're going to hit when you're rich.
 

kdnash82

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
530
Reaction score
8
Location
A land near you
blueguy said:
I think it's important to have a balance and not let your emotions control you.
I agree with this. I believe it's best to have a balance. If you concentrate solely on your career, then your love life will fizzle. If she's not getting it from you, she will definately find it some where else.

If you concentrate totally on your love life, then you'd be too occupied on it to concentrate while you're at work.

It's best to be able to seperate them both yet give them equal attention, or be able to bend at the right time and place so you don't break and have more of one part and less of the other.

Honestly, I've had the extreme of both and was happy with both extremes. Focusing on poon showed me the highs of the party life. Focusing on work showed me the joys of becoming successful. Why not have both in your life and double dip the pleasure?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Hmmm, what would be more detrimental to your livelihood; not having a woman or not having a job?
 

bigjohnson

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2007
Messages
2,438
Reaction score
38
Nice. Sex is a great thing but it's not the only thing. A great career will help ensure not only sex but a lot of other important things in life. But then when you're a kid I guess that's harder to grasp.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Alphamale1821

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2007
Messages
466
Reaction score
6
Location
Texas
traffic said:
This is wrong on so many levels.

I've got friends who make 30K a year and have already hit the chicks that you think you're going to hit when you're rich.
I'm not saying that i can't hit those women but for my over all enjoyment i want to be rich and enjoy the life of luxury. I simply want to see how far i can make it before i die. I'm sure i will be able to **** women of high social value then me, but as a man i simply believe the man should be of higher value. Aside from that wanting to be rich isn't because of women. I want to be rich for my own reasons and thus date women of the same social class.
 

Victory Unlimited

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2005
Messages
1,357
Reaction score
313
Location
On the Frontlines
The only reason why most guys EVER even look for a job in the first place is to make enough money to ATTRACT women!!!


Just kidding...or am I? lol
 

Alphamale1821

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2007
Messages
466
Reaction score
6
Location
Texas
bigjohnson said:
Nice. Sex is a great thing but it's not the only thing. A great career will help ensure not only sex but a lot of other important things in life. But then when you're a kid I guess that's harder to grasp.
Exactly obviously focusing on your career would be the most logical thing to do in life but not everyone shares the same logic as we do.
 

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
traffic said:
Sex life.

I'd rather be a modest carpenter hitting every piece of ass that comes my way than a powerful lawyer working 70 hrs a week and floundering at the expensive clubs every weekend night.
I agree. I couldn't live without sex. I wouldn't be a virgin for all the riches in the world. Sorry virgins.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top