“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's more important? Height or weight?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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LikeTheWind said:
Neither, stop being so insecure with yourself and go out and work on your game. There are overweight guys who get girls, underweight skinny guys who get girls, short guys, tall guys, average guys, every kind. Stop overanalyzing the superficial aspects.
This is what being brainwashed sounds like.

It matters to some, while it doesn't matter to some.

Hotter tall girls aren't into short guys. Hotter slim and toned athletic girls aren't into overweight guys.

That's what it is in a nutshell, but it's not THE rule. Some aren't as picky as some others.
 

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Neither matter, women are attracted to personality first, physique second. You cannot change your height so immediately this outcome is negated. Don't condition yourself to believing that being overweight is ok because overweight guys can still get girls however. The benefits of health and fitness are beyond all this "game" stuff.
 

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Looks don't matter for anything.
Put me on field with a very attractive guy of the same skill as me but my game's JUST that little bit tighter and I'll put, that's the way it is.

Your frame is wrong build a newer, better frame.
Looks don't matter.
 

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So so true, I had 3 missing teeth in the front and braces, scars between my eyes and a massive scar from my lip to my nose... the wire actually crossed the massive gap at the front, and I still managed to pull the women I wanted to pull and form relationships. I'm also an overweight personal trainer hahaha.

I'm just one testament to "looks DO NOT matter".
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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As others have said, looks aren't everything but having good looks certainly doesn't hurt.

Height is definitely something that allows a man to stand out. If you are blessed with good height, it helps with the ladies.

In terms of weight, you'll be alright if you're not too skinny or too fat. You don't necessarily have to be a huge bodybuilder type. Most of the Hollywood pretty boys look healthy but they're not all bulging out muscles. Most of them have slim but not skinny builds.

I think girls would prefer a shorter, slim guy over a tall, fat guy assuming all other factors (money, game etc.) are equal.
 

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There are PLENTY of girls who don't care (much) about height and weight if you can make them laugh, have a good time with them, treat them right, and are independent in life and deed.

Find them.
 

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I'm gonna call bull**** on this whole thread. Height and weight matter a **** load, if you aren't big (tall and not skinny) you get way more opprotunities than a short guy.

I'm in shape, but not absolutely ripped (14% body fat) but I'm only 5'8. Not a midget but short enough to get a lot of doors closed when out at the bars and clubs. Yes it's no excuse you can still pick up women at 5'8 (or even 5'4) but you get a lot less opprotunities.
 

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Of course it counts, everything counts.

Just because a girl doesn't place the highest emphasis on looks, doesnt mean you can use it as an excuse to be disgusting and overweight. It's not a glandular problem, you're just lazy.

Get your ass in the gym and go running. You'll feel better, you'll look better and you'll have discipline and inner strength after awhile which makes you even more attractive.
 

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Muscle is increidbly important as it is the very essence of what makes a man. And Women want Men.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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