thewarrior
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When it comes to attracting women?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What's more important? Height or weight?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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This is what being brainwashed sounds like.LikeTheWind said:Neither, stop being so insecure with yourself and go out and work on your game. There are overweight guys who get girls, underweight skinny guys who get girls, short guys, tall guys, average guys, every kind. Stop overanalyzing the superficial aspects.
It matters to some, while it doesn't matter to some.
Hotter tall girls aren't into short guys. Hotter slim and toned athletic girls aren't into overweight guys.
That's what it is in a nutshell, but it's not THE rule. Some aren't as picky as some others.
Neither matter, women are attracted to personality first, physique second. You cannot change your height so immediately this outcome is negated. Don't condition yourself to believing that being overweight is ok because overweight guys can still get girls however. The benefits of health and fitness are beyond all this "game" stuff.
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Neither.
Looks don't matter for anything.
Put me on field with a very attractive guy of the same skill as me but my game's JUST that little bit tighter and I'll put, that's the way it is.
Your frame is wrong build a newer, better frame.
Looks don't matter.
Looks don't matter for anything.
Put me on field with a very attractive guy of the same skill as me but my game's JUST that little bit tighter and I'll put, that's the way it is.
Your frame is wrong build a newer, better frame.
Looks don't matter.
So so true, I had 3 missing teeth in the front and braces, scars between my eyes and a massive scar from my lip to my nose... the wire actually crossed the massive gap at the front, and I still managed to pull the women I wanted to pull and form relationships. I'm also an overweight personal trainer hahaha.
I'm just one testament to "looks DO NOT matter".
I'm just one testament to "looks DO NOT matter".
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
As others have said, looks aren't everything but having good looks certainly doesn't hurt.
Height is definitely something that allows a man to stand out. If you are blessed with good height, it helps with the ladies.
In terms of weight, you'll be alright if you're not too skinny or too fat. You don't necessarily have to be a huge bodybuilder type. Most of the Hollywood pretty boys look healthy but they're not all bulging out muscles. Most of them have slim but not skinny builds.
I think girls would prefer a shorter, slim guy over a tall, fat guy assuming all other factors (money, game etc.) are equal.
Height is definitely something that allows a man to stand out. If you are blessed with good height, it helps with the ladies.
In terms of weight, you'll be alright if you're not too skinny or too fat. You don't necessarily have to be a huge bodybuilder type. Most of the Hollywood pretty boys look healthy but they're not all bulging out muscles. Most of them have slim but not skinny builds.
I think girls would prefer a shorter, slim guy over a tall, fat guy assuming all other factors (money, game etc.) are equal.
I'm gonna call bull**** on this whole thread. Height and weight matter a **** load, if you aren't big (tall and not skinny) you get way more opprotunities than a short guy.
I'm in shape, but not absolutely ripped (14% body fat) but I'm only 5'8. Not a midget but short enough to get a lot of doors closed when out at the bars and clubs. Yes it's no excuse you can still pick up women at 5'8 (or even 5'4) but you get a lot less opprotunities.
I'm in shape, but not absolutely ripped (14% body fat) but I'm only 5'8. Not a midget but short enough to get a lot of doors closed when out at the bars and clubs. Yes it's no excuse you can still pick up women at 5'8 (or even 5'4) but you get a lot less opprotunities.
Of course it counts, everything counts.
Just because a girl doesn't place the highest emphasis on looks, doesnt mean you can use it as an excuse to be disgusting and overweight. It's not a glandular problem, you're just lazy.
Get your ass in the gym and go running. You'll feel better, you'll look better and you'll have discipline and inner strength after awhile which makes you even more attractive.
Just because a girl doesn't place the highest emphasis on looks, doesnt mean you can use it as an excuse to be disgusting and overweight. It's not a glandular problem, you're just lazy.
Get your ass in the gym and go running. You'll feel better, you'll look better and you'll have discipline and inner strength after awhile which makes you even more attractive.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.