"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What's it feel like to graduate?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Booblepook
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But, ending high school is just the begging. Then you gonna go to college, then work. Then you find out that work is slavary and you need to work for yourself. And so you conclude that freedom was just an illusion.
But that "that's it!" feeling will be one of a kind. You won't have that same feeling in college.
I grew my hair long and bummed around everyday in the sun for 4 months before uni started.
All that resulted in a feeling of greater freedom, although I was jobless and mooched heavily off the parents and grandparents.
I thought I was a massive raver at the time, its all about the plur man, what a tosser.
fresh_to_death
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DO NOT FALL FOR THE CREDIT CARD, LOAN, AND PERSONAL LOAN OFFERS THAT BANKS ARE GOING TO OFFER YOU. THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. I cannot stress that enough. Ten minutes to max out a credit card, ten years to pay it off.itishe said:
If you are going to college then explore all of your financial aid options in detail. It is only now that I have finally understood the financial **** I got myself into years ago at uni. If you spend at least 3 days just reading up on loans, grants, scholarships and how they work you will be more knowledgeable
than the people behind the financial aid counter. START NOW. You will have the jump on at least %80 percent of FA applicants.
You are your own person after HS. Who you were associated with and what you did in HS will not matter. The world and the people in it do not care.
There are a lot of naysayers, unhappy, and self-destructive people in this world. Learn to separate yourself from them early on.
And last but not least, women aren't the only reason to live. I'm so sick of seeing friends having their lives turned upside down because of women. Remember Daniel-san, money over *****es!
Anyways, graduating is a new beginning that shouldn't be taken too lightly. The sky is the limit. I know that is so cliche, but it's true.
MacAvoy
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I agree with that and can't stress it enough. I lived the high life in college because of credit cards, loans etc... Its not worth the years of agony that follow. Now I live without credit and if I want something expensive, I either save up for it or I get a big fat contract so I can buy it cash.fresh_to_death said:
You can still have a blast at college, you don't need all the credit cards.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
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SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
When you arrive in university, you'll get a serious attitude adjustment and realize how little you know. (Or at least you will if you're going to a good college).