picard
Master Don Juan
What's the proper dress for gentleman in his 30s to impress the ladies? Should he dress in preppy, golf clothing, banker suit, or calvin klein casual? 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what's is proper dress attire to attract women?
- Thread starter picard
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Golf is probably out, but you are asking for fashion advice from straight men, which is a bad idea. Find some women and gay dudes. They have the fashion sense.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Picard
I tend to dress for myself rather than impressing somebody.
I just tend to dress for the weather, I guess. Put a clean shirt on. If it's dinner I'll put on a nice shirt and slacks depending on the place. If it's Joe's crab shack...casual gear. You know, Cargo pants with a nice short sleeved button up.
Anything that makes you feel comfortable. I like to think my style is versatile. Lol.
Just dress for comfort and the occasion. With that in mind you won't go wrong.
Zaius is right but atleast show you put effort into it. Make her think that even if it isn't a major concern. So in other words press your shirt. If it has last Monday's spaghetti dinner stain, get another clean shirt.
I tend to dress for myself rather than impressing somebody.
I just tend to dress for the weather, I guess. Put a clean shirt on. If it's dinner I'll put on a nice shirt and slacks depending on the place. If it's Joe's crab shack...casual gear. You know, Cargo pants with a nice short sleeved button up.
Anything that makes you feel comfortable. I like to think my style is versatile. Lol.
Just dress for comfort and the occasion. With that in mind you won't go wrong.
Zaius is right but atleast show you put effort into it. Make her think that even if it isn't a major concern. So in other words press your shirt. If it has last Monday's spaghetti dinner stain, get another clean shirt.
Dress in whatever you feel like but realize the following:
If you dress better, it's likely that you will get better results.
One caveat might be the that you should dress to fit in but dress a notch better.
For instance wearing a tux to a frat party is a bit overdone, kind of like alot of those guys who wear suits to a bar.
on the flip side, if you are just gettig off work and are in a suit, why not go to the bar. You don't need to change into shorts to look like every other slob there.
If you dress better, it's likely that you will get better results.
One caveat might be the that you should dress to fit in but dress a notch better.
For instance wearing a tux to a frat party is a bit overdone, kind of like alot of those guys who wear suits to a bar.
on the flip side, if you are just gettig off work and are in a suit, why not go to the bar. You don't need to change into shorts to look like every other slob there.