picard
Master Don Juan
What's the proper dress for gentleman in his 30s to impress the ladies? Should he dress in preppy, golf clothing, banker suit, or calvin klein casual? 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what's is proper dress attire to attract women?
- Thread starter picard
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Golf is probably out, but you are asking for fashion advice from straight men, which is a bad idea. Find some women and gay dudes. They have the fashion sense.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Picard
I tend to dress for myself rather than impressing somebody.
I just tend to dress for the weather, I guess. Put a clean shirt on. If it's dinner I'll put on a nice shirt and slacks depending on the place. If it's Joe's crab shack...casual gear. You know, Cargo pants with a nice short sleeved button up.
Anything that makes you feel comfortable. I like to think my style is versatile. Lol.
Just dress for comfort and the occasion. With that in mind you won't go wrong.
Zaius is right but atleast show you put effort into it. Make her think that even if it isn't a major concern. So in other words press your shirt. If it has last Monday's spaghetti dinner stain, get another clean shirt.
I tend to dress for myself rather than impressing somebody.
I just tend to dress for the weather, I guess. Put a clean shirt on. If it's dinner I'll put on a nice shirt and slacks depending on the place. If it's Joe's crab shack...casual gear. You know, Cargo pants with a nice short sleeved button up.
Anything that makes you feel comfortable. I like to think my style is versatile. Lol.
Just dress for comfort and the occasion. With that in mind you won't go wrong.
Zaius is right but atleast show you put effort into it. Make her think that even if it isn't a major concern. So in other words press your shirt. If it has last Monday's spaghetti dinner stain, get another clean shirt.
Dress in whatever you feel like but realize the following:
If you dress better, it's likely that you will get better results.
One caveat might be the that you should dress to fit in but dress a notch better.
For instance wearing a tux to a frat party is a bit overdone, kind of like alot of those guys who wear suits to a bar.
on the flip side, if you are just gettig off work and are in a suit, why not go to the bar. You don't need to change into shorts to look like every other slob there.
If you dress better, it's likely that you will get better results.
One caveat might be the that you should dress to fit in but dress a notch better.
For instance wearing a tux to a frat party is a bit overdone, kind of like alot of those guys who wear suits to a bar.
on the flip side, if you are just gettig off work and are in a suit, why not go to the bar. You don't need to change into shorts to look like every other slob there.