"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whats interesting to talk about with girls?

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hey

In class i'm alright sitting next to and nearby hot girls, I can join the convo anytime. The problem is I rarely have anything funny or interesting to talk about, while the others have a good time chatting away, i'm pretty much ignored because I have nothing to add to the convo.:crazy:

I'm not that shy or lacking confidence, I just dont know what to talk about really.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can overcome this problem?

thanks!:cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Casanova?

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listen to what there talking about then contribute?
 
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Use your own experience, talking about stuff you don't know is easy but the real anecdotes come from what you know. For instance I like to talk about running with my obese dog. Of course I exaggerate certain parts of the story but it makes for a good minute or so conversation with lots of follow ups of questions and follow up stories on another day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I find talking about television is good sometimes with girls. Like if you watch the Real World or The OC. Girls love talking about either show.
 
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comment on something there talking about, like if there talking about the o.c. say excuse me but what was the last episode about? some crap like that. just comment. good luck man.
 
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chicks love talking about social issues...

talk about your experience with girls, or of u don't ahve any make it up....

u know how girls are, since you're a part of this forum. it's funny how u can surprise women with your knowledge about them...

like they're social creatures...their friends often make important decisions for them...they tend not to make their own decisions for some strange reason..umm..their mind games that they like to play..etc...just bring that **** up...it's so funny seeing their reactions..
 
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Usually the less important it is/more boring to you means it's the complete opposite to them.
 
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