"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats interesting to talk about with girls?

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hey

In class i'm alright sitting next to and nearby hot girls, I can join the convo anytime. The problem is I rarely have anything funny or interesting to talk about, while the others have a good time chatting away, i'm pretty much ignored because I have nothing to add to the convo.:crazy:

I'm not that shy or lacking confidence, I just dont know what to talk about really.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can overcome this problem?

thanks!:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Casanova?

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listen to what there talking about then contribute?
 
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Use your own experience, talking about stuff you don't know is easy but the real anecdotes come from what you know. For instance I like to talk about running with my obese dog. Of course I exaggerate certain parts of the story but it makes for a good minute or so conversation with lots of follow ups of questions and follow up stories on another day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I find talking about television is good sometimes with girls. Like if you watch the Real World or The OC. Girls love talking about either show.
 
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comment on something there talking about, like if there talking about the o.c. say excuse me but what was the last episode about? some crap like that. just comment. good luck man.
 
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chicks love talking about social issues...

talk about your experience with girls, or of u don't ahve any make it up....

u know how girls are, since you're a part of this forum. it's funny how u can surprise women with your knowledge about them...

like they're social creatures...their friends often make important decisions for them...they tend not to make their own decisions for some strange reason..umm..their mind games that they like to play..etc...just bring that **** up...it's so funny seeing their reactions..
 
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Usually the less important it is/more boring to you means it's the complete opposite to them.
 
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