haha, just thought I would remind all of you negative wingers to lighten up a big. Life is fukcing great, take it easy, relax. Have fun with your girls, thats what their there for, not to stress over. Life is beautiful enjoy it everyday.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Whats inside............
- Thread starter CLOONEY
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I dont think its girls perse that gets guys stressed over, its what girls represent in their lives.
being loved, respected, feeling wanted, appreciated, worthy, ego boost
Its hard to say to live your life when you dont have those things
kind of like a salesman who stresses over a potential buyer, he doesnt care about the buyer as much as what the buyer can do for him - pay his commission, pay bills, reduce stress, feed himself, etc
think about it, if women didnt bruise our ego's, emotions, make us feel good or bad about ourselves, we would NEXT every girl that came into our lives
most of the fellas on here complaining about girls are really complaining about their shattered ego's and their feelings of low self worth
being loved, respected, feeling wanted, appreciated, worthy, ego boost
Its hard to say to live your life when you dont have those things
kind of like a salesman who stresses over a potential buyer, he doesnt care about the buyer as much as what the buyer can do for him - pay his commission, pay bills, reduce stress, feed himself, etc
think about it, if women didnt bruise our ego's, emotions, make us feel good or bad about ourselves, we would NEXT every girl that came into our lives
most of the fellas on here complaining about girls are really complaining about their shattered ego's and their feelings of low self worth
sharpshooter
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that's so true
PuertoRican_Lover
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Clooney and ManoMan, you both make good points!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I was feeling this way for the last two weeks...you saw some of the posts that came out of me as a result. Also, as a result, I was taking a LOT more bullsh!t from women in my life.
The last couple days I've really learned to relax with this, remembering that:
-life is temporary, we need to experience as much as possible before we die
-I shouldn't have to change my behavior just because a woman is present, either to impress her or to appear "respectable" and "worthy" in front of my friends.
-A woman seeming worthy to ME is what should be important to me. I should let HER decide if I'm worthy to HER.
-Women are really just one of the fun things in life. They're like toys...they're fun as hell to play with, but they're not worth getting stressed out over when they don't work right or when they give you a hard time. It's easy to set them down and come back to them when you feel up to it, or just get rid of them and buy a new one.
Right on, CLOONEY. Worry about experiencing the fun times in your OWN life and making YOURSELF a better person. The women will appreciate that MORE than you trying to please them. And if they don't, tough luck. Find another one.
ManOMan, yes most guys here are complaining about their own low self worth. But Squirrels has the view I am talking about. I have been through crap with woman, but at the end of the day, its your own perspective on the situation. I am hurt for a couple of days and then am like, WTF, sooooooo many other beautiful opportunities out there, who cares about her. U just gotta take it lightly and most importantly worry about YOU, what you are doing, if you really even like her, not what she thinks about you, or what she is doing blah blah blah. Just have fun with it and make sure YOU are enjoying yourself. That way you can take everything as it comes and just have a fukcing stellar life. Its just about changing your OWN mindset. Most guys on these boards need to learn how to do this.................