"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's in a name?

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Well,the reason I chose the name "Igetit!" was because in the past,I used to have virtually every problem known to man concerning women. Especially the friendzone problem. I made mistake after mistake over and over again,but I never knew why. However,one day,I was at a bookstore I came across Neil Strauss' book "The Game". That book opened my eyes to a world I never knew even existed. Then I came across pua sites and books that explained women like I've never heard before. When I read these books and some of the posts from Mystery,Style,and some other puas,suddenly I got it. I understood why I kept running into these problems. I know what causes the "friendzone", I know why you can get a girl's number on Monday,then when you call her two days later for a date, she says,"I can't,I have to do this or that", I know why it's bad to tell a girl she's hot.
When I discovered "the community", I got an understanding I never had before. So, this is why I chose the name "Igetit!".
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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forward said:
I choose not to reveal the reason I chose my name. It will be more interesting to you all as a mystery (which is only part of why I chose it).

Likewise, I did my best to make my signature's explanation as self-contained as I wanted it.
Well, if you're not gonna answer the question why even write? Anyway, I do like your signature it has some sort of hope to it.
 

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Igetit, nice background there. Awesome, well I'm happy for you.
 

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Thanks man,and by the way,good thread.
 

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Chose a random song on itunes.
Five to One by the Doors came up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Immrtlwun is more or less short hand for immortal one because I plan to some day leave some kind of legacy that outlives me.
The quote is from V for Vendetta.
 
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