"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's in a name?

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Well,the reason I chose the name "Igetit!" was because in the past,I used to have virtually every problem known to man concerning women. Especially the friendzone problem. I made mistake after mistake over and over again,but I never knew why. However,one day,I was at a bookstore I came across Neil Strauss' book "The Game". That book opened my eyes to a world I never knew even existed. Then I came across pua sites and books that explained women like I've never heard before. When I read these books and some of the posts from Mystery,Style,and some other puas,suddenly I got it. I understood why I kept running into these problems. I know what causes the "friendzone", I know why you can get a girl's number on Monday,then when you call her two days later for a date, she says,"I can't,I have to do this or that", I know why it's bad to tell a girl she's hot.
When I discovered "the community", I got an understanding I never had before. So, this is why I chose the name "Igetit!".
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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forward said:
I choose not to reveal the reason I chose my name. It will be more interesting to you all as a mystery (which is only part of why I chose it).

Likewise, I did my best to make my signature's explanation as self-contained as I wanted it.
Well, if you're not gonna answer the question why even write? Anyway, I do like your signature it has some sort of hope to it.
 

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Igetit, nice background there. Awesome, well I'm happy for you.
 

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Thanks man,and by the way,good thread.
 

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Chose a random song on itunes.
Five to One by the Doors came up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Immrtlwun is more or less short hand for immortal one because I plan to some day leave some kind of legacy that outlives me.
The quote is from V for Vendetta.
 
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