"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's in a name?

Igetit!

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Well,the reason I chose the name "Igetit!" was because in the past,I used to have virtually every problem known to man concerning women. Especially the friendzone problem. I made mistake after mistake over and over again,but I never knew why. However,one day,I was at a bookstore I came across Neil Strauss' book "The Game". That book opened my eyes to a world I never knew even existed. Then I came across pua sites and books that explained women like I've never heard before. When I read these books and some of the posts from Mystery,Style,and some other puas,suddenly I got it. I understood why I kept running into these problems. I know what causes the "friendzone", I know why you can get a girl's number on Monday,then when you call her two days later for a date, she says,"I can't,I have to do this or that", I know why it's bad to tell a girl she's hot.
When I discovered "the community", I got an understanding I never had before. So, this is why I chose the name "Igetit!".
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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forward said:
I choose not to reveal the reason I chose my name. It will be more interesting to you all as a mystery (which is only part of why I chose it).

Likewise, I did my best to make my signature's explanation as self-contained as I wanted it.
Well, if you're not gonna answer the question why even write? Anyway, I do like your signature it has some sort of hope to it.
 

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Igetit, nice background there. Awesome, well I'm happy for you.
 

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Thanks man,and by the way,good thread.
 

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Chose a random song on itunes.
Five to One by the Doors came up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Immrtlwun is more or less short hand for immortal one because I plan to some day leave some kind of legacy that outlives me.
The quote is from V for Vendetta.
 
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