"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's in a name and how did you end up here?

Kailex

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Kailex is a sign-on name I've used forever on different forums and different online games and pretty much anywhere as a moniker.

Have always loved the name Kai... added the -lex and went with it.


My signature is something I've lived by for years.
If a woman was cheating on her b/f with me, I knew better than to try to make her into an LTR.


I came to this site because of a relationship I let slide because I was an UBER, UBER AFC. She wanted to come back to my place and I brought her, got her undressed and then slept beside her without doing anything because I wanted to prove that I wasn't like all of those other guys who just wanted her for sex... I wanted to prove that I respected her. Unsurprisingly, she never went out with me again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Huffman

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OK it's Huffman, but I cannot tell you the reason - it's a big secret :)

How I got here? I heard somebody talking about a "b itch shield" and thought the idea was funny. I searched for it on google and you can guess where I ended up...
 

Powerlifter

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My screen name is misleading and should be Filmmaker.

I picked Powerlifter because I like strength training lifts like Bench, Deadlifts, Squats, and one that is not a Powerlifting excercise Power Cleans.

Some might have this image of a pot bellied powerlifter but not even close.

I wish I could change it to Filmmaker. I am currently executive producer of an independent film being made in the Chicago area of which I finance movies as an investment.

Powerlifter
 

Alle_Gory

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I used allegory as my username but split it in two because my first name starts with A and my last name starts with G.

An allegory is a "subject that represents an underlying idea or an abstract quality". Which pretty much describes what I write.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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I bear this moniker because I admire the insane ambition, risk taking, assumption of power, and legendary womanizing of Caesar. There has been none greater, he named two months after himself 2,000 years ago and we still honor him today.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

jafyk

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Bible_Belt said:
I was dating a churchy girl and thinking to myself that dating was a little different in the midwestern bible belt.

And if you make ten posts in a day on sosuave, then...
Then what? I post too much no sosuave for me? Lol, man that just sucks. I remember having something I wanted to say so badly and then I had reached my 10 posts, grrrrrrrrr!
 

jafyk

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I bear this moniker because I admire the insane ambition, risk taking, assumption of power, and legendary womanizing of Caesar. There has been none greater, he named two months after himself 2,000 years ago and we still honor him today.

Your name is of the few that I like "Seize her" Lol, well Alexander my friend the world is yours take it or should I say seize her.

Allegory is cool too. So, what are you an allegory of? The troubled men who found their way to sosuave? Lol. Just kidding my man.
 
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