"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My ex and I haven't seen each other in five months, now she "needs a place to stay" for 4 days and asked me if she could stay there (with her friend). When we first got together, it was about a month after her boyfriend went off to bootcamp. They were together for 2 years, then she was with me for 4 months...2 weeks before he came back...we broke up...then she got back with him. It's been 1 month since he again was shipped off 2000 miles away. Do you see what I see?
It seems like she want someone to be able to give her the attention that she can't live without..especially around the holidays. When we were first going out, we were very much in the church sort of deal...waiting till marriage. Honestly, I just want to f*ck her. Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX

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If her friend is a chick and your ex agrees to fvck you as payment for letting them stay then let them stay.

If not direct them to the nearest motel.

If her friend is a guy as in the new guy she's fvcking but pretending to be friends with to deceive you direct them to the nearest motel.
 
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DJDamage

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Theunique1 said:
Honestly, I just want to f*ck her. Thoughts?
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Fvcking a soldier's girlfriend while he is away fighting for the country you live in, man that's cold but to each is own.

It doesn't gurentee you will get sex after breakup. It is more likely now that she is back together with her man that she will just use you for accomodation purposes (she is bringing a friend, what do you think that is not a clue?). Don't full for that crap, if she wanted to fvck you it shouldn't have strings attached.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX said:
If her friend is a chick and your ex agrees to fvck you as payment for letting them stay then let them stay.

If not direct them to the nearest motel.

If her friend is a guy as in the new guy she's fvcking but pretending to be friends with to deceive you direct them to the nearest motel.
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Seconded.
 
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Shes using you so use her too if you want. Make sure she pays rent and does the cooking and cleaning!
 
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