"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's her game?

Theunique1

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My ex and I haven't seen each other in five months, now she "needs a place to stay" for 4 days and asked me if she could stay there (with her friend). When we first got together, it was about a month after her boyfriend went off to bootcamp. They were together for 2 years, then she was with me for 4 months...2 weeks before he came back...we broke up...then she got back with him. It's been 1 month since he again was shipped off 2000 miles away. Do you see what I see?
It seems like she want someone to be able to give her the attention that she can't live without..especially around the holidays. When we were first going out, we were very much in the church sort of deal...waiting till marriage. Honestly, I just want to f*ck her. Thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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If her friend is a chick and your ex agrees to fvck you as payment for letting them stay then let them stay.

If not direct them to the nearest motel.

If her friend is a guy as in the new guy she's fvcking but pretending to be friends with to deceive you direct them to the nearest motel.
 

DJDamage

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Theunique1 said:
Honestly, I just want to f*ck her. Thoughts?
Fvcking a soldier's girlfriend while he is away fighting for the country you live in, man that's cold but to each is own.

It doesn't gurentee you will get sex after breakup. It is more likely now that she is back together with her man that she will just use you for accomodation purposes (she is bringing a friend, what do you think that is not a clue?). Don't full for that crap, if she wanted to fvck you it shouldn't have strings attached.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maxtro

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KontrollerX said:
If her friend is a chick and your ex agrees to fvck you as payment for letting them stay then let them stay.

If not direct them to the nearest motel.

If her friend is a guy as in the new guy she's fvcking but pretending to be friends with to deceive you direct them to the nearest motel.
Seconded.
 

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Shes using you so use her too if you want. Make sure she pays rent and does the cooking and cleaning!
 
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