"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's her friend doing....

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PinkFloyd

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So I'm walking with this girl I am interested in after class. Her friend meets us, like usual, and she moves in between me and her (there was a person on the interested girl's opposite side. So I say, "Woah sarah (the friend), you are totaly cutting between us (in a joking way). She responds somewhere along the lines of "yeah I know". She might have been joking or not. But she I was on the friend's side until I had to go to class.

What the heck. What is this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****blocked. It happens when one girl wants to protect the other girl from being picked-up.
 
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**** blocked indeed. You really need to gauge interest of your target before you proceed again. What im seeing is projection of your feelings for the target reciprocated as the target's thoughts. As in, first you referred to her as the one you were interested in then later called her the interested girl. If this is a friend ****blocking it's because your game is solid, but you didn't disarm her friends first. Or, you may need to reasses her interest because she let her friend ****block you. If she was genuinely interested she would have prevented her friend from cbing you.
 
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When she tried to cut me off I moved in and got back to the girl's side. Then I just kinda gradually got pushed off. Though a minute later the girl on the interested girl left so I just went there.

I kinda forget what happened <_<
 
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befriend the obsracle, show her youre not to be feared

Or hook her up with 1 of your friends
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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