Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What's her friend doing....

PinkFloyd

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So I'm walking with this girl I am interested in after class. Her friend meets us, like usual, and she moves in between me and her (there was a person on the interested girl's opposite side. So I say, "Woah sarah (the friend), you are totaly cutting between us (in a joking way). She responds somewhere along the lines of "yeah I know". She might have been joking or not. But she I was on the friend's side until I had to go to class.

What the heck. What is this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GuitarOnFire

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****blocked. It happens when one girl wants to protect the other girl from being picked-up.
 

LiqK

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**** blocked indeed. You really need to gauge interest of your target before you proceed again. What im seeing is projection of your feelings for the target reciprocated as the target's thoughts. As in, first you referred to her as the one you were interested in then later called her the interested girl. If this is a friend ****blocking it's because your game is solid, but you didn't disarm her friends first. Or, you may need to reasses her interest because she let her friend ****block you. If she was genuinely interested she would have prevented her friend from cbing you.
 

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When she tried to cut me off I moved in and got back to the girl's side. Then I just kinda gradually got pushed off. Though a minute later the girl on the interested girl left so I just went there.

I kinda forget what happened <_<
 

Muphaser

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befriend the obsracle, show her youre not to be feared

Or hook her up with 1 of your friends
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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