So I met this chick a couple of months ago on a vacation to florida. She gave me her e-mail address after partying one night and asked me to get in touch with her. I came back home and e-mailed her, which she responded to right away. Well... ever since then we have been communicating almost every day.
It turned out we have quite a bit in common. She seemed to take a liking to me, sending me about five e-mails to every one of mine. So about three weeks ago she was telling me she had some time off of work and didn't have any plans for her long weekend. I asked her to come out and see me, and she said yes.
She bought a plane ticket and flew about a thousand miles last weekend to come see me. Kissing/making out began almost immediately as soon as I brought her back to my place after I picked her up from the airport. We hung out at my place and just watched movies, getting close and snuggling. Out of the blue she asks "Do you mind if we sleep in the same bed?" Stunned, with a smile on my face, my response was "Hell no!"
So we get into bed and I'm trying to heat things up. I want to touch her boobs and for the clothes to come off. But no, I'm stopped dead in my tracks, and told "You stop right there, mister!". At this point I am very shocked. I'm pissed, but not wanting to show it, for fear of making her uncomfortable... How wrong I was in assuming she was just a slut, and that she was sleeping with a different guys during the whole time I e-mailed her.
I had taken on this false assumption after seeing her kiss and hang on a few other guys in florida. She is very forward and flirtatious. After I was told to stop trying to manhandle her in bed (I could tell she was getting pyssed), she told me she doesn't have sex with anyone unless she's in a relationship.
During the three nights that we slept in the same bed, each one I was hoping to get laid, but it didn't happen. Lots and lots of kissing/making out and massages. This of course drove me right up the dam wall, but at the same time sparked some respect for this chick for not just making this a long-distance booty call.
Well... now I think I have a problem. While laying in bed with her, I'm afraid I cracked and started to say some AFC things. I was saying these things I think in an attempt for her to give up the pvssy. I said "Baby, I'd never cheat on you" after she told me how hurt she was after her last boyfriend cheated. I also told her that I was going to miss her when she's gone and that I felt like I was a little attached to her. And, I told her I liked her. I asked her if she thought we had chemistry. She said "Yes, I feel comfortable around you, and I like the way we get along". I even asked her: "You're not going to break my heart, are you?" DOH! I know (AFC)... Her response was "I hope not".
Well, the truth: I do miss her now that she's gone. My place feels empty. This is headed down a path to one-itis. I've been thinking about her every minute since I kissed her goodbye. I really enjoyed her company, and we had fun while she visited. Like I said, we have some common interests. She said "I really don't want to rush into a relationship. We need to spend more time together." She told me that she didn't want to go home on the last night that she was here. I'm not really sure if its because she doesn't like her home a thousand miles away, or if its because she was going to miss me.
I do know she had fun while being here... We laughed, and spent practically every minute together. She initiated touching, kissing/and making out as did I. This girl is very straightforward and honest it seems, and also doesn't seem like a game player. We have joked with each other about marriage due to our common interests. I hardly spent any money on this chick while she was here. She probably spent more money on me. We've yet to see each others darker side. During the whole time that she was here, she kept apologizing for being boring... I didn't really find her that boring though. I told her today: "This sucks, you need to move closer!" Her response was: "You couldn't handle me if I lived closer to you." <--- How do I interpret that?
I don't like this long distance shyt one bit. I've got other girls that I can date around here, and I will. This one's getting me though because I really do like her, and it actually makes me feel better that she didn't open her legs for me, even though I tried. But, my feelings are somewhat mixed because I feel she just may be looking for me as an escape from her present state of life in her boring little town.
Anyhow, I may have fvcked this whole thing up by now with those AFC statements. What do you guys think about that? And what other suggestions about this whole thing do you have for me? Dam, this girl's really hot.
It turned out we have quite a bit in common. She seemed to take a liking to me, sending me about five e-mails to every one of mine. So about three weeks ago she was telling me she had some time off of work and didn't have any plans for her long weekend. I asked her to come out and see me, and she said yes.
She bought a plane ticket and flew about a thousand miles last weekend to come see me. Kissing/making out began almost immediately as soon as I brought her back to my place after I picked her up from the airport. We hung out at my place and just watched movies, getting close and snuggling. Out of the blue she asks "Do you mind if we sleep in the same bed?" Stunned, with a smile on my face, my response was "Hell no!"
So we get into bed and I'm trying to heat things up. I want to touch her boobs and for the clothes to come off. But no, I'm stopped dead in my tracks, and told "You stop right there, mister!". At this point I am very shocked. I'm pissed, but not wanting to show it, for fear of making her uncomfortable... How wrong I was in assuming she was just a slut, and that she was sleeping with a different guys during the whole time I e-mailed her.
I had taken on this false assumption after seeing her kiss and hang on a few other guys in florida. She is very forward and flirtatious. After I was told to stop trying to manhandle her in bed (I could tell she was getting pyssed), she told me she doesn't have sex with anyone unless she's in a relationship.
During the three nights that we slept in the same bed, each one I was hoping to get laid, but it didn't happen. Lots and lots of kissing/making out and massages. This of course drove me right up the dam wall, but at the same time sparked some respect for this chick for not just making this a long-distance booty call.
Well... now I think I have a problem. While laying in bed with her, I'm afraid I cracked and started to say some AFC things. I was saying these things I think in an attempt for her to give up the pvssy. I said "Baby, I'd never cheat on you" after she told me how hurt she was after her last boyfriend cheated. I also told her that I was going to miss her when she's gone and that I felt like I was a little attached to her. And, I told her I liked her. I asked her if she thought we had chemistry. She said "Yes, I feel comfortable around you, and I like the way we get along". I even asked her: "You're not going to break my heart, are you?" DOH! I know (AFC)... Her response was "I hope not".
Well, the truth: I do miss her now that she's gone. My place feels empty. This is headed down a path to one-itis. I've been thinking about her every minute since I kissed her goodbye. I really enjoyed her company, and we had fun while she visited. Like I said, we have some common interests. She said "I really don't want to rush into a relationship. We need to spend more time together." She told me that she didn't want to go home on the last night that she was here. I'm not really sure if its because she doesn't like her home a thousand miles away, or if its because she was going to miss me.
I do know she had fun while being here... We laughed, and spent practically every minute together. She initiated touching, kissing/and making out as did I. This girl is very straightforward and honest it seems, and also doesn't seem like a game player. We have joked with each other about marriage due to our common interests. I hardly spent any money on this chick while she was here. She probably spent more money on me. We've yet to see each others darker side. During the whole time that she was here, she kept apologizing for being boring... I didn't really find her that boring though. I told her today: "This sucks, you need to move closer!" Her response was: "You couldn't handle me if I lived closer to you." <--- How do I interpret that?
I don't like this long distance shyt one bit. I've got other girls that I can date around here, and I will. This one's getting me though because I really do like her, and it actually makes me feel better that she didn't open her legs for me, even though I tried. But, my feelings are somewhat mixed because I feel she just may be looking for me as an escape from her present state of life in her boring little town.
Anyhow, I may have fvcked this whole thing up by now with those AFC statements. What do you guys think about that? And what other suggestions about this whole thing do you have for me? Dam, this girl's really hot.
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