"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's for breakfast?

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Recently, I've been convinced of the importance of a good breakfast for health and well being. I used to skip breakfast regularly but wouldn't think of it now. It's too important to refuel the body after a night's sleep.

What are your thoughts, tips and actual breakfast routine?


I start the day usually with a protein shake, whole wheat toast with Omega 3 margarine, a banana and my various vitamin supplements. How about you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What? Nobody eats breakfast anymore?
 

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Oatmeal, eggs, beef, protein shake, or if I am cheating cinnamon toast crunch!
 

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A shake consisting of 2 scoops whey, banana, 1 cup oatmeal, 4 eggs, handful of berries, water, and whatever else i want to throw in there - I'll have it twice and the second time i might make peanut butter on whole wheat toast
 

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Thanks guys. They both sound pretty healthy.


My morning shake also consists of 2 scoops of protien. I'm trying one of whey and one of soya protein. I'm going to add an Omega 3 egg to the mix and some more fresh fruit. Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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romangod said:
What? Nobody eats breakfast anymore?
some people have a life on saturday night. just sayin'. plus this was covered by a nearly identical thread in the last few weeks.
 

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Throttle said:
some people have a life on saturday night. just sayin'. plus this was covered by a nearly identical thread in the last few weeks.


Sorry, man.
 

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romangod said:
Thanks guys. They both sound pretty healthy.


My morning shake also consists of 2 scoops of protien. I'm trying one of whey and one of soya protein. I'm going to add an Omega 3 egg to the mix and some more fresh fruit. Cheers!
I've heard that soy protein actually increases estrogen levels. Can anyone confirm that?
 

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WhitePimp said:
I've heard that soy protein actually increases estrogen levels. Can anyone confirm that?
This is true.

However you have to consume quite a bit of soy protein to cause a significant change. Perhaps drinking 2 glasses of soy milk at every meal...that would be a lot. (this is like...4-5 meals a day)

For example, red wine can cure cancer and is a strong antioxidant. However, the chemical that does this in red wine is not concentrated enough to make an impact, and you would have to be insanely drunk 24/7 for it to help you. In addition, that will hurt your liver in exchange for a cancer free life. Furthermore, due to your 24/7 drunkenness, you are more susceptible to dying in a car accident or falling onto the tracks waiting for a train.

Drink soy, but like anything else, it's good in moderation...bad in extreme amounts.
 

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Desert Fox said:
This is true.

However you have to consume quite a bit of soy protein to cause a significant change. Perhaps drinking 2 glasses of soy milk at every meal...that would be a lot. (this is like...4-5 meals a day)

Drink soy, but like anything else, it's good in moderation...bad in extreme amounts.

Thanks for your input. I usually have just the one scoop of soy protein per day. Hopefully it is more of a benefit than a liability. Cheers!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wake up and have a couple of pieces of toast with whipped honey on it before I go workout. After Ill have a protein shake with just 2 scoops of ON whey in milk, then oatmeal with blueberries in it. Id say 3/4 cup of oats (that's measured) then maybe 1/4-3/8 cup of blueberries. The oatmeal does have a pretty decent amount of brown sugar but it's so good. And still less than most cereals, I put in about 2 tbs of brown sugar.
 

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Eggs, full rye bread, oatmeal with some milk, nuts and fruit, sometimes whey.
 

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WhitePimp said:
I've heard that soy protein actually increases estrogen levels. Can anyone confirm that?

I can confirm this, sort of. I just got back from the health food store and they told me the same thing. I'm going to stick to Whey.
 

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health food people don't really know much. i'm not a proponent of soy and while i know it breaks down into phytoestrogens, i have not encountered any solid evidence of this acting like the hormone estrogen in your body.
note: don't trust doctors, personal trainers, or people selling you stuff.
 

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the theory is that the phytoestrogens bind to the same receptors as estrogen. since they're competing for space, some of the estrogen piles up in the body. thus the soy contributes indirectly to higher estrogen levels over the long term.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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