"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's considered a "player"?

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So I had dinner w/my friends the other day. I just moved to Seattle, I used to come from a small town, I haven't really dated since I moved here, but i used to date a lot of girls in my old town, I'd never chase any girls (too busy with other things back then). They would chase me, and ask me out. So i dated them, but only for about a month... then i'd loose interest and move on. I didn't use them for sex in any way, they just couldn't keep me interested.

After telling my friends this, they got mad and said "i was playing with girls hearts and only players do that."

I don't consider it playing a girl if didn't **** and chuck.

thoughts?
I'm just curious on what you'd view as a player.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i believe a real player has a girl in a LTR and keeps her

thats a true ma fukin playa
 
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talkin within us to me player is some one who got game, and can convey personality easily to a group of poeple.

to girls player, is the guy who ****s alot of chix and usually lies to them...
 
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a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
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That's just standard.
 
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it takes a true player to keep a girl for a long time..

if you had no game.. how the hell would u keep a girl? she would cut u off and go for more

cheating and lieing to a girl in a LTR is just stupid and makes you look like an idiot..
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
We dont use the term player here.
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I guess you really ARE unique...
 
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A player, to me, is anyone who has CHOICE with women...whether that be the choice of a LTR or the choice of a new chick each night.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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player is someone who plays with girls hearts... he flirts with them but doesnt get any further.. hes misleads them just to for fun.
 
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