"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's considered a "player"?

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So I had dinner w/my friends the other day. I just moved to Seattle, I used to come from a small town, I haven't really dated since I moved here, but i used to date a lot of girls in my old town, I'd never chase any girls (too busy with other things back then). They would chase me, and ask me out. So i dated them, but only for about a month... then i'd loose interest and move on. I didn't use them for sex in any way, they just couldn't keep me interested.

After telling my friends this, they got mad and said "i was playing with girls hearts and only players do that."

I don't consider it playing a girl if didn't **** and chuck.

thoughts?
I'm just curious on what you'd view as a player.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i believe a real player has a girl in a LTR and keeps her

thats a true ma fukin playa
 
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talkin within us to me player is some one who got game, and can convey personality easily to a group of poeple.

to girls player, is the guy who ****s alot of chix and usually lies to them...
 
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a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
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That's just standard.
 
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it takes a true player to keep a girl for a long time..

if you had no game.. how the hell would u keep a girl? she would cut u off and go for more

cheating and lieing to a girl in a LTR is just stupid and makes you look like an idiot..
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
We dont use the term player here.
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I guess you really ARE unique...
 
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A player, to me, is anyone who has CHOICE with women...whether that be the choice of a LTR or the choice of a new chick each night.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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player is someone who plays with girls hearts... he flirts with them but doesnt get any further.. hes misleads them just to for fun.
 
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