"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's considered a "player"?

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So I had dinner w/my friends the other day. I just moved to Seattle, I used to come from a small town, I haven't really dated since I moved here, but i used to date a lot of girls in my old town, I'd never chase any girls (too busy with other things back then). They would chase me, and ask me out. So i dated them, but only for about a month... then i'd loose interest and move on. I didn't use them for sex in any way, they just couldn't keep me interested.

After telling my friends this, they got mad and said "i was playing with girls hearts and only players do that."

I don't consider it playing a girl if didn't **** and chuck.

thoughts?
I'm just curious on what you'd view as a player.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i believe a real player has a girl in a LTR and keeps her

thats a true ma fukin playa
 
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talkin within us to me player is some one who got game, and can convey personality easily to a group of poeple.

to girls player, is the guy who ****s alot of chix and usually lies to them...
 
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a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
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That's just standard.
 
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it takes a true player to keep a girl for a long time..

if you had no game.. how the hell would u keep a girl? she would cut u off and go for more

cheating and lieing to a girl in a LTR is just stupid and makes you look like an idiot..
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
We dont use the term player here.
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I guess you really ARE unique...
 
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A player, to me, is anyone who has CHOICE with women...whether that be the choice of a LTR or the choice of a new chick each night.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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player is someone who plays with girls hearts... he flirts with them but doesnt get any further.. hes misleads them just to for fun.
 
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