"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's Better, your DAY Game or your NIGHT Game ?

Peterpack

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I've met the better girls from day game but obviously more girls from night game so it's a tough call. I would have to say my night game is a bit better
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Captain

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The same things attract women in the daytime and at night, BUT: compared to other men, I'm better during the day.

This is only because during the daytime I can approach any woman I like, on the street or wherever, and have success. This has come from practice and experience.

On the other hand, during the night at clubs and places like that, the rest of the men are drinking, most are half drunk, which fills them up with fake confidence, so my confidence stands out less. Fortunately, fake confidence like that only works for so long, they can't stay drunk their whole lives. This is why quite a few of them can hook up with a woman at a club, or maybe even bring one home, but they still have unhappy relationships where the woman has the power.
 

Hughman

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Tough call. About the same for each.

Night-game I can have a drink to calm the nerves if I want. But more importantly the women have drink in them, and are 'expecting' approaches, at least subconsciously.

Day-game, well, day-game is pretty much a non-entity in this country outside of schools/universities, offices and unemployed street gangs. And I have had results. Not so much cold-approaching, there's always been some 'link' to set up an intro. But day-game nevertheless.
 

Captain Harlock

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Nightgame, it's just the atmosphere and all. I'm tired and low-energy during the day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HardTimes

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I still don't even understand how day game works and never had any success from it (but I'm working on it).
 
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