"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's Better, your DAY Game or your NIGHT Game ?

Peterpack

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I've met the better girls from day game but obviously more girls from night game so it's a tough call. I would have to say my night game is a bit better
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Captain

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The same things attract women in the daytime and at night, BUT: compared to other men, I'm better during the day.

This is only because during the daytime I can approach any woman I like, on the street or wherever, and have success. This has come from practice and experience.

On the other hand, during the night at clubs and places like that, the rest of the men are drinking, most are half drunk, which fills them up with fake confidence, so my confidence stands out less. Fortunately, fake confidence like that only works for so long, they can't stay drunk their whole lives. This is why quite a few of them can hook up with a woman at a club, or maybe even bring one home, but they still have unhappy relationships where the woman has the power.
 

Hughman

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Tough call. About the same for each.

Night-game I can have a drink to calm the nerves if I want. But more importantly the women have drink in them, and are 'expecting' approaches, at least subconsciously.

Day-game, well, day-game is pretty much a non-entity in this country outside of schools/universities, offices and unemployed street gangs. And I have had results. Not so much cold-approaching, there's always been some 'link' to set up an intro. But day-game nevertheless.
 

Captain Harlock

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Nightgame, it's just the atmosphere and all. I'm tired and low-energy during the day.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HardTimes

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I still don't even understand how day game works and never had any success from it (but I'm working on it).
 
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