The Muscle Guy
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Time to step out of the cave.
You can have both and marry neither.
You can have both and marry neither.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whats better: a wealthy, successful "7" or a regular "10"?
- Thread starter seth03
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Depends on what you want...a fling or a relationship.
To be honest, if you're looking for something long-term it's better to have the personality be there with good looks. I was married for several years and while she was very cute (7.5) she was NOT the most attractive woman I ever slept with. But too much of ANY woman and they will begin to look the same. But if it's someone you have a genuine connection with and enjoy to be around them then they are LTR material.
If you're just looking for a good time then obviously the 10 is the way to go. Thrill of the hunt and to the victor go the spoils.
To be honest, if you're looking for something long-term it's better to have the personality be there with good looks. I was married for several years and while she was very cute (7.5) she was NOT the most attractive woman I ever slept with. But too much of ANY woman and they will begin to look the same. But if it's someone you have a genuine connection with and enjoy to be around them then they are LTR material.
If you're just looking for a good time then obviously the 10 is the way to go. Thrill of the hunt and to the victor go the spoils.
edger
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The "10" all the way! I could care less about the "love" part. I'm all about the sexual gratification from the hottie. I don't plan on getting married, because I want to mess with as many attractive women as I can, and marriage would only be an obstacle in my way. It makes much more sense to stay single and f*ck and f*ck and f*ck(responsibly of course) and experience as many sexy women as you can till the day you pass from this earth.