The Muscle Guy
Banned
Time to step out of the cave.
You can have both and marry neither.
You can have both and marry neither.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats better: a wealthy, successful "7" or a regular "10"?
- Thread starter seth03
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Depends on what you want...a fling or a relationship.
To be honest, if you're looking for something long-term it's better to have the personality be there with good looks. I was married for several years and while she was very cute (7.5) she was NOT the most attractive woman I ever slept with. But too much of ANY woman and they will begin to look the same. But if it's someone you have a genuine connection with and enjoy to be around them then they are LTR material.
If you're just looking for a good time then obviously the 10 is the way to go. Thrill of the hunt and to the victor go the spoils.
To be honest, if you're looking for something long-term it's better to have the personality be there with good looks. I was married for several years and while she was very cute (7.5) she was NOT the most attractive woman I ever slept with. But too much of ANY woman and they will begin to look the same. But if it's someone you have a genuine connection with and enjoy to be around them then they are LTR material.
If you're just looking for a good time then obviously the 10 is the way to go. Thrill of the hunt and to the victor go the spoils.
edger
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2006
- Messages
- 1,874
- Reaction score
- 39
The "10" all the way! I could care less about the "love" part. I'm all about the sexual gratification from the hottie. I don't plan on getting married, because I want to mess with as many attractive women as I can, and marriage would only be an obstacle in my way. It makes much more sense to stay single and f*ck and f*ck and f*ck(responsibly of course) and experience as many sexy women as you can till the day you pass from this earth.