whats best way to tell a girl that you dont want relationship?

[BigDave]

i had a serious make out session with a girl the other day and i think that when i see her again she may be into being in a relationship with me, which i dont want. any ideas on how to get out of this? we are at the same university.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Don't say a word until she says something specific about starting a relationship. It is possible that you are misreading her and making such an assumption could hurt the chances of a good friendship.

If and when she does brings up having a relationship you can use the same lines that women use. Tell her that you really like her as a friend and you wouldn't feel comfortable taking it beyond that. Be friendly and sincere and also tell her that you wouldn't want to loose her friendship.

No one has ever said that women couldn't fall into the LJBF zone

 

[dead_romeo]

Exactly.

Feed them the same shyt sandwich that they feed us when they wanna get out of something.

 

[niteguy2003]

I am a pretty forward person, when I meet a girl and stuff and I usually tell them right away that I am not looking for a relationship, I am just having fun. Depending on how they respond to that, then I take it from there. you would be surprised as to how many girls just want to have fun as well. Tell them right away because if you get too deep into what you are doing it could have serious problems when you do tell them that you don't want to be with that person. My 2 cents.

Jeremy

 

[Knicknack]

who cares if you get into a relationship? just lie your way out of everything. women have an incredible ability to justify being b|tches, why shouldn't men? who cares if you break her heart. lie lie lie.

 

[Duff]

knicknack hmm bad advice, you've been walked all over by a biatch huh? not all women are like that, alot but not all. Maybe this bird this guy is talking about is a nice girl???

 

[1hepcat]

Originally posted by Duff
Maybe this bird this guy is talking about is a nice girl???

Nice girl? I met one of those once...

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by dead_romeo
Feed them the same shyt sandwich that they feed us when they wanna get out of something.

Bahahaha

 

[Knicknack]

Originally posted by Duff
knicknack hmm bad advice, you've been walked all over by a biatch huh? not all women are like that, alot but not all. Maybe this bird this guy is talking about is a nice girl???

you don't get it. i have dated plenty on "nice girls" who would never cheat on me. girls "upgrade" their guys whenever they get bored. i refuse to let this happen to me because i'll never treat one girl like she's my only one. even if i have to lie to win her trust, i'll still do it. sad facts of the game, but i didn't create it, i just play.

 

[Duff]

Yea but u said who cares if u break her heart. That just plain out of order. Why would u wanna hurt someone like that? If u set out to do that, it shows your insecurities. If a girl is a ***** i jsut forget about her, she aint worth ****. I wont set out to hurt her u get me??? Don't get me wrong i aint a ***** or nothin, no AFC that lets girls walk all over me but i just dont bother giving it back i just move on to next *****!!! its the best way man. Unless they like some crazy ho that is, then ill whack em up! hahaha jokes

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Sometimes honesty is the best policy. "I like you, but I'm not really looking for a relationship." I know the whole ITS NOT YOU ITS ME thing is so lame, but sometimes it's true... when I meet a new guy, I tell them I'm not in the right head for a relationship (which I'm not). 99% of guys find this to be relieving, ha ha... the girl may not be thrilled w/ this, but if you want to be honest, then be honest. If you want to lie, then you konw what to say. Your call. Depends on the person I guess.

 

[Player_Supreme]

LJBF

is all you gotta say

 

[BigDave]

What about girls in the same dorm as you

How do you shag multiple girls that live in the same dorm as you and get around all the uneasiness n shiet that goes with seeing them again etc?? i mean im not really into getting into a relationship, yet, i just wanna shag around

 

[Ian1983]

Easy situation not to get into...not be such a male *****

 

[Ian1983]

Easy situation not to get into...not be such a male ho

 

[Grey Fox]

In the words of Leon Phelps, the ladies man:

"Um yeah, its been great, but you got to go."

-Grey Fox

 

[myfriendblu]

I have got an idea - How bout you grow a pair of friggen balls, and just tell her " Hey this is BigDave and I wanna kick it on a friendship level only".

There you go simple as that. be a man