BigDave
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i had a serious make out session with a girl the other day and i think that when i see her again she may be into being in a relationship with me, which i dont want. any ideas on how to get out of this? we are at the same university.
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whats best way to tell a girl that you dont want relationship?
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't say a word until she says something specific about starting a relationship. It is possible that you are misreading her and making such an assumption could hurt the chances of a good friendship.
If and when she does brings up having a relationship you can use the same lines that women use. Tell her that you really like her as a friend and you wouldn't feel comfortable taking it beyond that. Be friendly and sincere and also tell her that you wouldn't want to loose her friendship.
No one has ever said that women couldn't fall into the LJBF zone
If and when she does brings up having a relationship you can use the same lines that women use. Tell her that you really like her as a friend and you wouldn't feel comfortable taking it beyond that. Be friendly and sincere and also tell her that you wouldn't want to loose her friendship.
No one has ever said that women couldn't fall into the LJBF zone
dead_romeo
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Exactly.
Feed them the same shyt sandwich that they feed us when they wanna get out of something.
Feed them the same shyt sandwich that they feed us when they wanna get out of something.
niteguy2003
Don Juan
I am a pretty forward person, when I meet a girl and stuff and I usually tell them right away that I am not looking for a relationship, I am just having fun. Depending on how they respond to that, then I take it from there. you would be surprised as to how many girls just want to have fun as well. Tell them right away because if you get too deep into what you are doing it could have serious problems when you do tell them that you don't want to be with that person. My 2 cents.
Jeremy
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wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Bahahaha
you don't get it. i have dated plenty on "nice girls" who would never cheat on me. girls "upgrade" their guys whenever they get bored. i refuse to let this happen to me because i'll never treat one girl like she's my only one. even if i have to lie to win her trust, i'll still do it. sad facts of the game, but i didn't create it, i just play.
Yea but u said who cares if u break her heart. That just plain out of order. Why would u wanna hurt someone like that? If u set out to do that, it shows your insecurities. If a girl is a ***** i jsut forget about her, she aint worth ****. I wont set out to hurt her u get me??? Don't get me wrong i aint a ***** or nothin, no AFC that lets girls walk all over me but i just dont bother giving it back i just move on to next *****!!! its the best way man. Unless they like some crazy ho that is, then ill whack em up! hahaha jokes
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Sometimes honesty is the best policy. "I like you, but I'm not really looking for a relationship." I know the whole ITS NOT YOU ITS ME thing is so lame, but sometimes it's true... when I meet a new guy, I tell them I'm not in the right head for a relationship (which I'm not). 99% of guys find this to be relieving, ha ha... the girl may not be thrilled w/ this, but if you want to be honest, then be honest. If you want to lie, then you konw what to say. Your call. Depends on the person I guess.
Player_Supreme
Banned
LJBF
is all you gotta say
is all you gotta say
BigDave
Don Juan
What about girls in the same dorm as you
How do you shag multiple girls that live in the same dorm as you and get around all the uneasiness n shiet that goes with seeing them again etc?? i mean im not really into getting into a relationship, yet, i just wanna shag around
How do you shag multiple girls that live in the same dorm as you and get around all the uneasiness n shiet that goes with seeing them again etc?? i mean im not really into getting into a relationship, yet, i just wanna shag around
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
myfriendblu
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I have got an idea - How bout you grow a pair of friggen balls, and just tell her " Hey this is BigDave and I wanna kick it on a friendship level only".
There you go simple as that. be a man
There you go simple as that. be a man