"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's an issue?

Kal_Luke

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Obviously I'm quite new here but I know that this is the kind of place where I can learn a lot and maybe add a bit too. I work in sales and this has really helped my confidence. I absolutely hate using buzz words like fantastic and brilliant, I like telling things how they are.

The most important thing I have learnt in this line of work is: nothing is an issue unless you make it one. No matter how bad things look or whatever s*** storm you appear to be in, you must keep absolutely cool and not give away anything. You must say no more on an objection than is absolutely necessary but most importantly you must never create an issue. If something that comes up that can be ignored it must be. Women create all sorts of issues but you must not react. If an objection does come up I think it is important to react in such a way that the problem is just a given and that you are surprised that they think it is strange or a problem.

I think this is a good way to deal with anything what do my fellow DJ's think. I'm sure these aren't original thoughts
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its true.

do not let your emotions get the best of you or else you will lose all control.

Its the pimp mentality.

lead with confidence with little to no emotional investment and you will lead a less stressful life.
 

Kal_Luke

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There are three types of thing: an issue = something bad, something= neutral. I don't have a name for sthing good haha
 
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