"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's an issue?

Kal_Luke

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Obviously I'm quite new here but I know that this is the kind of place where I can learn a lot and maybe add a bit too. I work in sales and this has really helped my confidence. I absolutely hate using buzz words like fantastic and brilliant, I like telling things how they are.

The most important thing I have learnt in this line of work is: nothing is an issue unless you make it one. No matter how bad things look or whatever s*** storm you appear to be in, you must keep absolutely cool and not give away anything. You must say no more on an objection than is absolutely necessary but most importantly you must never create an issue. If something that comes up that can be ignored it must be. Women create all sorts of issues but you must not react. If an objection does come up I think it is important to react in such a way that the problem is just a given and that you are surprised that they think it is strange or a problem.

I think this is a good way to deal with anything what do my fellow DJ's think. I'm sure these aren't original thoughts
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its true.

do not let your emotions get the best of you or else you will lose all control.

Its the pimp mentality.

lead with confidence with little to no emotional investment and you will lead a less stressful life.
 

Kal_Luke

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There are three types of thing: an issue = something bad, something= neutral. I don't have a name for sthing good haha
 
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