"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's an issue?

Kal_Luke

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Obviously I'm quite new here but I know that this is the kind of place where I can learn a lot and maybe add a bit too. I work in sales and this has really helped my confidence. I absolutely hate using buzz words like fantastic and brilliant, I like telling things how they are.

The most important thing I have learnt in this line of work is: nothing is an issue unless you make it one. No matter how bad things look or whatever s*** storm you appear to be in, you must keep absolutely cool and not give away anything. You must say no more on an objection than is absolutely necessary but most importantly you must never create an issue. If something that comes up that can be ignored it must be. Women create all sorts of issues but you must not react. If an objection does come up I think it is important to react in such a way that the problem is just a given and that you are surprised that they think it is strange or a problem.

I think this is a good way to deal with anything what do my fellow DJ's think. I'm sure these aren't original thoughts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PokerStar

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its true.

do not let your emotions get the best of you or else you will lose all control.

Its the pimp mentality.

lead with confidence with little to no emotional investment and you will lead a less stressful life.
 

Kal_Luke

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There are three types of thing: an issue = something bad, something= neutral. I don't have a name for sthing good haha
 
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