If a girl gives you the "Lets just be friends" or "We're better off just friends" me the kinda guy I am, I don't wanna be "just friends" with a girl so I want to know what to say in preperation if it does happen. For example, I was thinking, if a girls like "I think we're better off as friends" then I would say like "No, thanks" and then something C&F to rape her self esteem and self confidence. Any suggestions?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Whats a great response for...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
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Sounds to me like you're burning your bridges once you do that. Not to mention, it's going to backfire - she just finished rejecting you... do you really think that she won't see through your childish attempt at doing a "getback"? I know I would... obviously if you thought so little of her, you wouldn't have put yourself in a position to be rejected by her... which completely invalidates any "retaliatory" statement that you could make to her after the fact.
belividere
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why do you want to rape someones self-esteem or self-confidence. That is messed up man. I would rather a girl tell me straight up that she would rather be friends, even though the line is bullsh.t, then a girl pretend and act b1tchy to me. Just because someone has enough self-esteem to let you know where you stand to them gives you no real reason to be pissed. You should thank them for honesty and not wasting your time that you can be using to meet other women and actually have fun with.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Don't be mean and rude. The classic response is what I prefer. Firm, strong, yet it is not arrogant or rude.
"I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
This way you leave strong, mature, and with all your dignity....instead of trying to come back with an immature "comeback".
"I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
This way you leave strong, mature, and with all your dignity....instead of trying to come back with an immature "comeback".
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
when a girl says, "I just want to be friends" what she really means is. "I don't think I want a relationship with you".
That doesn't mean that she won't have sex with you.
If you say the line above in a C&F way she won't be offended by it. You also end up leaving on a powerfull note. She will think about you sometime and she will know that you just want her for sex. if you are still around you might get laid.
That doesn't mean that she won't have sex with you.
If you say the line above in a C&F way she won't be offended by it. You also end up leaving on a powerfull note. She will think about you sometime and she will know that you just want her for sex. if you are still around you might get laid.
That's what I'm talking about. Good one and just what I was looking for, thank you."I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
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or simple...
nah it's alright, but nice knowing you anyways. bye.
nah it's alright, but nice knowing you anyways. bye.