If a girl gives you the "Lets just be friends" or "We're better off just friends" me the kinda guy I am, I don't wanna be "just friends" with a girl so I want to know what to say in preperation if it does happen. For example, I was thinking, if a girls like "I think we're better off as friends" then I would say like "No, thanks" and then something C&F to rape her self esteem and self confidence. Any suggestions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats a great response for...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo
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Sounds to me like you're burning your bridges once you do that. Not to mention, it's going to backfire - she just finished rejecting you... do you really think that she won't see through your childish attempt at doing a "getback"? I know I would... obviously if you thought so little of her, you wouldn't have put yourself in a position to be rejected by her... which completely invalidates any "retaliatory" statement that you could make to her after the fact.
belividere
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why do you want to rape someones self-esteem or self-confidence. That is messed up man. I would rather a girl tell me straight up that she would rather be friends, even though the line is bullsh.t, then a girl pretend and act b1tchy to me. Just because someone has enough self-esteem to let you know where you stand to them gives you no real reason to be pissed. You should thank them for honesty and not wasting your time that you can be using to meet other women and actually have fun with.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Don't be mean and rude. The classic response is what I prefer. Firm, strong, yet it is not arrogant or rude.
"I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
This way you leave strong, mature, and with all your dignity....instead of trying to come back with an immature "comeback".
"I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
This way you leave strong, mature, and with all your dignity....instead of trying to come back with an immature "comeback".
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
when a girl says, "I just want to be friends" what she really means is. "I don't think I want a relationship with you".
That doesn't mean that she won't have sex with you.
If you say the line above in a C&F way she won't be offended by it. You also end up leaving on a powerfull note. She will think about you sometime and she will know that you just want her for sex. if you are still around you might get laid.
That doesn't mean that she won't have sex with you.
If you say the line above in a C&F way she won't be offended by it. You also end up leaving on a powerfull note. She will think about you sometime and she will know that you just want her for sex. if you are still around you might get laid.
That's what I'm talking about. Good one and just what I was looking for, thank you."I have enough friends. Nice meeting you (*shake hand*). Bye." (*leave*)
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or simple...
nah it's alright, but nice knowing you anyways. bye.
nah it's alright, but nice knowing you anyways. bye.