"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's a good site that's like a female equivalent to this site

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal_water

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haha intersting you should post this, I just posted in another thread.

Obviously some girls read the PUA forums for ego boosts and to see how we are tying to gain the upper hand, I have tried looking at womens forums to get an insight into how they think, to get the "inside knowledge" but they are just so boring.

95% of women are plain dull, and dammed lucky they have looks to fall back on. They are like the one trick ponys of the human race.
 

Kenny Powers

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Honestly can't see the girls who would use a site like this being all that attractive. In today's society its disturbingly common for a decent looking, intelligent and nice young man to struggle to find a mate. Men, being innately logical and good problem solvers, understandably then turn to sources like the internet for advice when they can't find the help they need.

Now can you really see a hot girl going through the process that brings most men to sites like this? Even following a bad break-up she'll most likely just fvck another guy until she feels better. I'd imagine most girls on sites like this are there just for marriage or relationship advice. I doubt any seek lifelong self-improvement - just shortcuts, pity and blaming men (AFCs take note).

I mean can you really see some girl telling another girl if she wants to find a good man she needs to hit the gym?
 

Who Dares Win

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They have forums probably only about securing a guy thats beyond their league, not getting guys in general as we do here.

Can you imagine a woman to suggest an other woman to do a fvcking diet and stop being a cvnt? they would probably suggest to each other to stop taking the pill with no notification to him just to make sure he is forced to stay.
 

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If such a site exists, women should post field reports too.

HB1: "I hit the club with 14 girlfriends and 3 guy friends at midnight Saturday night. I laughed at the guys that actually had to PAY cover to get in haha. This guy approached me but he was sooo not hot 'cause he was like 5'11 5/8". I have a six foot minimum. But I let him buy me drinks. Then I told him I had a boyfriend and discreetly slipped my number to the hawt bartender. The bartender guy texted me after the club closed and we kinda sorta hooked up in his car."

HB2: "Great field report. You go girl! I gotta stop keygirl jockeying and hit the field hard next weekend. Can you recommend any good posts on improving my b@tch shield? That's my only sticking point."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If I give you the name of the site, would you promise to go there and never come back here?
 

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Ya and the other posters are right. Women really dont nees help in the dating game lol
 

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I've heard of women attending very expensive seminars where they're taught strategies on how to hunt down and marry older, very rich men. Like Goldiggers Inc. or something like that.
 

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It's called "girl talk."

Girls tend to have friends they can talk to, guys don't. Hence why you see forums like this.

Rest assured "girl talk" is often full of how lame, stupid, and weak guys are and how they all wish they were lesbians.
 

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It is a number's game. American females have bad genetics, years of feminist training, no sense of style, weird cultural rules, and lack of hygiene/healthy habits. In many ways they are like Russia, Latvian, and Ukrainian men! No wonder Natashas constantly want to be my friend on vk.com. Too bad none of you know any Russian. You would be figuring out why girls all seem to hind behind plants and trees in their photos :confused:

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_v2zEq0iZp...Q/lsMlU6PY4B8/s640/Girl+like+Guelder+Rose.JPG
Why? Why does every female from 3 to death insist on taking pictures with vegetation and in front of fountains? Still haven't figured that one out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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