"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's a good site that's like a female equivalent to this site

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal_water

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haha intersting you should post this, I just posted in another thread.

Obviously some girls read the PUA forums for ego boosts and to see how we are tying to gain the upper hand, I have tried looking at womens forums to get an insight into how they think, to get the "inside knowledge" but they are just so boring.

95% of women are plain dull, and dammed lucky they have looks to fall back on. They are like the one trick ponys of the human race.
 

Kenny Powers

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Honestly can't see the girls who would use a site like this being all that attractive. In today's society its disturbingly common for a decent looking, intelligent and nice young man to struggle to find a mate. Men, being innately logical and good problem solvers, understandably then turn to sources like the internet for advice when they can't find the help they need.

Now can you really see a hot girl going through the process that brings most men to sites like this? Even following a bad break-up she'll most likely just fvck another guy until she feels better. I'd imagine most girls on sites like this are there just for marriage or relationship advice. I doubt any seek lifelong self-improvement - just shortcuts, pity and blaming men (AFCs take note).

I mean can you really see some girl telling another girl if she wants to find a good man she needs to hit the gym?
 

Who Dares Win

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They have forums probably only about securing a guy thats beyond their league, not getting guys in general as we do here.

Can you imagine a woman to suggest an other woman to do a fvcking diet and stop being a cvnt? they would probably suggest to each other to stop taking the pill with no notification to him just to make sure he is forced to stay.
 

Mike32ct

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If such a site exists, women should post field reports too.

HB1: "I hit the club with 14 girlfriends and 3 guy friends at midnight Saturday night. I laughed at the guys that actually had to PAY cover to get in haha. This guy approached me but he was sooo not hot 'cause he was like 5'11 5/8". I have a six foot minimum. But I let him buy me drinks. Then I told him I had a boyfriend and discreetly slipped my number to the hawt bartender. The bartender guy texted me after the club closed and we kinda sorta hooked up in his car."

HB2: "Great field report. You go girl! I gotta stop keygirl jockeying and hit the field hard next weekend. Can you recommend any good posts on improving my b@tch shield? That's my only sticking point."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If I give you the name of the site, would you promise to go there and never come back here?
 

JPlaya

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Ya and the other posters are right. Women really dont nees help in the dating game lol
 

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I've heard of women attending very expensive seminars where they're taught strategies on how to hunt down and marry older, very rich men. Like Goldiggers Inc. or something like that.
 

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It's called "girl talk."

Girls tend to have friends they can talk to, guys don't. Hence why you see forums like this.

Rest assured "girl talk" is often full of how lame, stupid, and weak guys are and how they all wish they were lesbians.
 

BigJimbo

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It is a number's game. American females have bad genetics, years of feminist training, no sense of style, weird cultural rules, and lack of hygiene/healthy habits. In many ways they are like Russia, Latvian, and Ukrainian men! No wonder Natashas constantly want to be my friend on vk.com. Too bad none of you know any Russian. You would be figuring out why girls all seem to hind behind plants and trees in their photos :confused:

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_v2zEq0iZp...Q/lsMlU6PY4B8/s640/Girl+like+Guelder+Rose.JPG
Why? Why does every female from 3 to death insist on taking pictures with vegetation and in front of fountains? Still haven't figured that one out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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