Whats a Good date plan besides a movie/dinner

[instant]

i just took a chick out that i just recently met to the movies see seemed pretty bored but she still diggs me can u please some suggestions for our next date by the way im 20 and shes 18
feel free to lemme know of a better place for the first date as well

 

[Skel]

damn thats hard because you really cant go to many places until your 21. There are some 18 and over clubs, pool halls but other than that I have no idea

 

[Evil-Rom]

I know this great place called Search.

 

[squirrels]

Pool, mini-golf, bowling, go-karts, rock-climbing, maybe a picnic or something...watch Blind Date or one of those shows, get some ideas. LOL

Or make it a "Blockbuster Night" and make sure you have a big, comfy couch.

If she's bored around you, don't take her to the club.

 

[backbreaker]

I take everyone I date to Mini Golf. Great time for Kinko, even though I have a swing from hell.

Also I like to bowl, but I am pretty good and I refuse to tank just to make a girl feel bad, so I only take girls that are pretty good.

 

[backbreaker]

also, ironically the best date I ever had was not to long ago, maybe 5 months ago when I took this chick I know that has LTR qualities to the horse track of all places. She always wanted to go, and I go every weekend, I figured what the hell.

 

[Hamaraz]

Action dates:

Rock climbing, indoor.

Makes her scared, you can impress her.

Last place to go on a date, coffee shop where she chats and shiit. Its actually pretty depressing what girls like to do on dates. I took a cursory look online what they prefer to do on a date, coffee shop, diner. Things in which are boring and superfluous. Things that tell you this girl is lame and boring and has no life. You can tell these type of girls do nothing but gossip, watch tv and talk on the phone. She will take you down to her level in a LTR because she will never want to do anything exciting and worthwhilel in life.

Its like a circle of b.s. nothing.

 

[Player_Supreme]

go to her place and bone her...that's why she is bored

 

[jakethasnake]

One thing I like to do is take girls to a live music concert, usually rock. If you're really musically oriented like me, it's a good way to connect with women with common musical interests. So next time you chat with a girl, ask what kind of music she likes. If she say Jazz, rock, blues, whatever, and you happen to like it too, just tell her that you'll take her to a live music club on the next date.



Btw, this is also a pretty good place to meet girls if you're single - if it's a famous band, you can use that as a segueway into conversation.




Oh, and this obvious won't work if you're at a 20,000 person stadium concert. I'm talking about more intimate venues - if there is a free-moving standing room, even better -- it's like a houseparty.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
go to her place and bone her...that's why she is bored

Funny but probably true. If a girl is bored to death with you but still wants to go out with you, it's usually because she wants the kack.

Think about it...if you went out with a girl and the date was a bore of a time, why would YOU still want to see her?

 

[jakethasnake]

Just keep it SIMPLE!

Originally posted by squirrels
Funny but probably true. If a girl is bored to death with you but still wants to go out with you, it's usually because she wants the kack.

Think about it...if you went out with a girl and the date was a bore of a time, why would YOU still want to see her?

Good point. A lot of guys are only doing this as a necessary course of action to get some poon - not because they especially enjoy going antique shopping/mini-golfing/clubbing - with a girl, no less (it's always more fun with your male buds anyway). So if you don't really enjoy not just letting your guard down and having fun (as you do with your friends), then why beat around the bush so much and go out on these played-out super-contrived "activity dates"?



Conclusion: keep it SIMPLE. If you have to work so hard with elaborate date activities and set-ups to even get physical with a date (making out, minimum), then she has low IL or isn't a good fit for you, anyway. Just keep your activities simple and fun, and proceed to making out as soon as possible. I remember one night I met up with a girl, bought a couple of bottles of beer, and went to the Strasse de 17 Juni area/park in Berlin, and promptly began to make out with her and fondle her on a park bench, in the dark. This all happened within a matter of 1.5 hours. The funny thing is, this simple buy-a-beer-sit-down-make-out deal felt just as "right" and "perfect" as a 'real date' consisting of a large production, replete with dinner, flowers, dessert, and romantic walks.




All these dates are are a "buffer" activity for chicks to engage in before fvcking anyway, so they don't feel so slutty for spreading their legs later on (i.e. after that date or a few dates later). Right?

 

[Blake]

I usually go to the Comedy Club or a Japanese steak house where you sit with about 10 others and watch the chef prepare your food. They're usually pretty damn funny. The important thing for me on a first date is just to have a damn good time and relax. I don't like to get into an "interview" process which can sometimes happen when its only the two of you and you run out of things to talk about and want to avoid any awkward silent moments.

 

[4afe]

I have always wanted to take a girl to a do it yourself pottery places, lol all the innuendo you can think of (its kind of gay so, never tried it)