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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What's a good CF line to use here (internet warning)

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Messages as far as myspace and facebook type sites.

This situation in particular:

Saw a girl from high school who was all over me but I never really gave her much time came back into town for the holiday.

We hung out and the CF and kino worked well in person. She spends some time on facebook and I thought itd be cool to leave a CF type message. Something that has to do with her coming back into town.

Nothing serious with her tho...just fun and games (dont really even know her)

any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by newb
Messages as far as myspace and facebook type sites.

This situation in particular:

Saw a girl from high school who was all over me but I never really gave her much time came back into town for the holiday.

We hung out and the CF and kino worked well in person. She spends some time on facebook and I thought itd be cool to leave a CF type message. Something that has to do with her coming back into town.

Nothing serious with her tho...just fun and games (dont really even know her)

any ideas?
Forget ****y and funny lines, fix your inner game first.

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Re: Re: Re: What's a good CF line to use here (internet warning)

Originally posted by thederekeffect1
lol, wtf?
I thought so...
 

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Hey, I would not try to be funny cause it might come across as wierd, with texting as well, a short message to provoke a feeling, tease her,(eg. stalking you ect) or tell her you saw a movie that something reminded you about her, you can be sure she'll want to know 'what movie' you get what I mean, act busy and that you have options and have things to do. Hint about that.One thing dont talk to long, set up a meet, be cool, and go for the kiss, dont be shy
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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