"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's a good CF line to use here (internet warning)

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Messages as far as myspace and facebook type sites.

This situation in particular:

Saw a girl from high school who was all over me but I never really gave her much time came back into town for the holiday.

We hung out and the CF and kino worked well in person. She spends some time on facebook and I thought itd be cool to leave a CF type message. Something that has to do with her coming back into town.

Nothing serious with her tho...just fun and games (dont really even know her)

any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by newb
Messages as far as myspace and facebook type sites.

This situation in particular:

Saw a girl from high school who was all over me but I never really gave her much time came back into town for the holiday.

We hung out and the CF and kino worked well in person. She spends some time on facebook and I thought itd be cool to leave a CF type message. Something that has to do with her coming back into town.

Nothing serious with her tho...just fun and games (dont really even know her)

any ideas?
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Re: Re: Re: What's a good CF line to use here (internet warning)

Originally posted by thederekeffect1
lol, wtf?
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I thought so...
 
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Hey, I would not try to be funny cause it might come across as wierd, with texting as well, a short message to provoke a feeling, tease her,(eg. stalking you ect) or tell her you saw a movie that something reminded you about her, you can be sure she'll want to know 'what movie' you get what I mean, act busy and that you have options and have things to do. Hint about that.One thing dont talk to long, set up a meet, be cool, and go for the kiss, dont be shy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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