"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's a good C&F response when some girl asks for your name?

stoner1129

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Well when I get asked for my name I usually just give it to them. I know it's boring, so I was wonderin what's a good response that makes yourself a challenge? I honestly can't think of one.
 

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619joe

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Why make it C&F?Just say your name on how it is.

Save the C&F for later.Dont overuse it in the beginning of the convo right away bro.What will you have later then?If you keep using it,it will get stale man and she wont appreciate it.Use sparingly man
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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just tell her your name...she wouldn't be asking if she wasn't interested. plenty of opportunities to be ****y and funny later. personally nerds, and newbies need to tread lightly with that c&f...you can easily come off as a chode.
 

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Dude, Krazyboy, are you on crack?? You're all weirded out in all your posts lately.

If you try too hard to be C&F when you first meet a girl, you'll turn her off. Just tell her your name and get her number. Once you get a date with her, you can bust on her and have fun with her but when you first meet her, you're a complete stranger. She doesn't know you, and will have a harder time catching onto your sense of humor.
 

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young_gun said:
Dude, Krazyboy, are you on crack?? You're all weirded out in all your posts lately.
I think he is just loony from all of the dumb posts lately, happens to the best of us. Temporary insanity.

His response was funny as hell, though. Made me LOL, in real life. I'd rep him if I could, but I have to spread some around first before I rep him again. He's been pretty damned funny lately, and I rep people who make me laugh. :D
 

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You have any nickname? Tell her one of yours, and even better, make up a pet name for her, so when you meet each other, you can call each other using those names instead. I do it all the time, initially out of necessity as I meet too many and can't remember their real names (gets difficult when you know half a dozen Sarah etc.).
 

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young_gun said:
Dude, Krazyboy, are you on crack?? You're all weirded out in all your posts lately.

If you try too hard to be C&F when you first meet a girl, you'll turn her off. Just tell her your name and get her number. Once you get a date with her, you can bust on her and have fun with her but when you first meet her, you're a complete stranger. She doesn't know you, and will have a harder time catching onto your sense of humor.
STFU, ill find u and slit ur throat you cheese wielding white boy. now GTFO out of my forum or ill rape ur mom
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stoner1129 said:
Well when I get asked for my name I usually just give it to them. I know it's boring, so I was wonderin what's a good response that makes yourself a challenge? I honestly can't think of one.

"None of your f#*king business what my name is, b*#ch!!"

That'll REALLY make you a challenge.:yes:
 

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A buddy of mine...(I think he's been reading seduction sites) tried this one night. This cute girl asks for his name and he replied "My name? It's too soon for all that!" She rolled her eyes and walked away. We tried not to laugh at him.
 

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Warrior74 said:
A buddy of mine...(I think he's been reading seduction sites) tried this one night. This cute girl asks for his name and he replied "My name? It's too soon for all that!" She rolled her eyes and walked away. We tried not to laugh at him.
LOL!!! I'm still laughing about it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CryingFreeman said:
STFU, ill find u and slit ur throat you cheese wielding white boy. now GTFO out of my forum or ill rape ur mom
what the hell is wrong with this guy? How has he not been banned?
 

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She: but you never told me your name?
I: I know (or simple smile
She: So what's your name?
I: you may call me Sergio
She: okay..... what's your real name than?
I: I gotta go.. I'll see you later ok.
she: but...
I: ;)
 
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