stoner1129
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Well when I get asked for my name I usually just give it to them. I know it's boring, so I was wonderin what's a good response that makes yourself a challenge? I honestly can't think of one.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What's a good C&F response when some girl asks for your name?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nightcrawler
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the chocha stuffer
stoner1129
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I seriously suck right now, i'm basically still gettin started
Why make it C&F?Just say your name on how it is.
Save the C&F for later.Dont overuse it in the beginning of the convo right away bro.What will you have later then?If you keep using it,it will get stale man and she wont appreciate it.Use sparingly man
Save the C&F for later.Dont overuse it in the beginning of the convo right away bro.What will you have later then?If you keep using it,it will get stale man and she wont appreciate it.Use sparingly man
stoner1129
Don Juan
Al right thanks man
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just tell her your name...she wouldn't be asking if she wasn't interested. plenty of opportunities to be ****y and funny later. personally nerds, and newbies need to tread lightly with that c&f...you can easily come off as a chode.
Dude, Krazyboy, are you on crack?? You're all weirded out in all your posts lately.
If you try too hard to be C&F when you first meet a girl, you'll turn her off. Just tell her your name and get her number. Once you get a date with her, you can bust on her and have fun with her but when you first meet her, you're a complete stranger. She doesn't know you, and will have a harder time catching onto your sense of humor.
If you try too hard to be C&F when you first meet a girl, you'll turn her off. Just tell her your name and get her number. Once you get a date with her, you can bust on her and have fun with her but when you first meet her, you're a complete stranger. She doesn't know you, and will have a harder time catching onto your sense of humor.
iqqi
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I think he is just loony from all of the dumb posts lately, happens to the best of us. Temporary insanity.young_gun said:
His response was funny as hell, though. Made me LOL, in real life. I'd rep him if I could, but I have to spread some around first before I rep him again. He's been pretty damned funny lately, and I rep people who make me laugh.
You have any nickname? Tell her one of yours, and even better, make up a pet name for her, so when you meet each other, you can call each other using those names instead. I do it all the time, initially out of necessity as I meet too many and can't remember their real names (gets difficult when you know half a dozen Sarah etc.).
CryingFreeman
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STFU, ill find u and slit ur throat you cheese wielding white boy. now GTFO out of my forum or ill rape ur momyoung_gun said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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stoner1129 said:
"None of your f#*king business what my name is, b*#ch!!"
That'll REALLY make you a challenge.:yes:
A buddy of mine...(I think he's been reading seduction sites) tried this one night. This cute girl asks for his name and he replied "My name? It's too soon for all that!" She rolled her eyes and walked away. We tried not to laugh at him.
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lol i always say... "my names brian.. go ahead and scream it.. it feels good"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ezily
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what the hell is wrong with this guy? How has he not been banned?CryingFreeman said:
Sir I
Don Juan
She: but you never told me your name?
I: I know (or simple smile
She: So what's your name?
I: you may call me Sergio
She: okay..... what's your real name than?
I: I gotta go.. I'll see you later ok.
she: but...
I:
I: I know (or simple smile
She: So what's your name?
I: you may call me Sergio
She: okay..... what's your real name than?
I: I gotta go.. I'll see you later ok.
she: but...
I: