"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whats a good alias?

Whats a good alias?

  • Pulse

    Votes: 5 62.5%
  • Beat

    Votes: 1 12.5%
  • Groove

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • Total voters
    8

ian1988

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Just kinda sunk in my head i kinda need an alias... So ive narrowed it down to 3...

Just a bit of background info as to why I choose the names.. I am a drummer, I sing, play a little guitar and love to dance... and I love music in general with a passion.

So getting connotations with being a drummer.. it was between.. Groove, Pulse or Beat..

I would have liked Rhythm.. but that got taken :(

So VOTE AWAY PEOPLE!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Soyoushave

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why do you want an alias?
because Mystery has one?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but being a DJ is about being your (best) self.
Showing who YOU are, without hiding behind things.
An alias is the opposite. It shows that you're hiding behind something. It sounds very 'batman/spiderman/superman' like. Finding a cool name to fit your personality.

I'd just go with your normal name;)
 

Obsidian

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Yeah, whenever I meet a girl in a bar, I say "Hey, my name's [insert name here], but my friends usually call me Obsidian." It really gets the convo going.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mental

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ian1988 said:
Just kinda sunk in my head i kinda need an alias... So ive narrowed it down to 3...

Just a bit of background info as to why I choose the names.. I am a drummer, I sing, play a little guitar and love to dance... and I love music in general with a passion.

So getting connotations with being a drummer.. it was between.. Groove, Pulse or Beat..

I would have liked Rhythm.. but that got taken :(

So VOTE AWAY PEOPLE!
I think you might look at a "nickname" more than an avatar, which, I suppose some might argue, is sort of the same thing.

Here are a few I've had since early high school until now.

Draco

Draco, of course, refering to the constellation, and the idea that I looked a bit more like a vampire back then. (I have a natural widow's peak)

Yard Boy

One of my friends and I were playing a computer game, and I showed him an easter egg where you swear at the announcer and he gets pissed off, and makes fun of you, takes away points, etc. This time, the announcer changed my name to "yard Boy." My buddy thought it was hilarious, and started calling me "Yard Boy"

and now some close friends call me "Mental" though I don't introduce myself to the ladies as such.

"Mental" is because I specialize in a branch of illusion that deals with reading minds; I also have a character that I perform (an "amazing Johnathan" type of lunatic), so all my performer friends call me "mental."

I don't use it to go out with the ladies.

I think most nicknames sound goofy if you force them on people. I tried going for "Ace" once, but absolutely no one wanted to call me that (actually, my aunt came up with it; I liked it at the time, so I tried spreading it around, and it didn't work). I think it has to grow somewhat independantly of the person who the name is for.

Only time you might need an avatar is when you're performing, writing, etc and don't want your real name known.

That being said, I think there are pros and cons to all of the nicknames you've chosen:

Beat sounds cool, but then it sounds like the vegetable, or it can sound like you're violent... or that you're always, as the British say, "having a pull."

Groove sounds a little cornball to me, personally. Plus, I think it tend to be a common "avatar" name for DJ's, etc. Actually, I've met 2 or 3 guys who try referring to themselves as "DJ Groove."

Pulse is ok, but still, I'm not a huge fan of it. I suppose I can take it or leave it.
 

Someone Much cooler

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lol unless you have something to hide....like you slingin and you don't want the cops to know who you are, then whats the point of an alias? I actaully think is kinda lame.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Wow this post is ridiculous...and the thought of using an alias is as lame as anything I've ever encountered here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Telos

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Yeah, whenever I meet a girl in a bar, I say "Hey, my name's [insert name here], but my friends usually call me Obsidian." It really gets the convo going.
I hope to god this was sarcasm.
 

Suicide

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Dude, if you ever introduce yourself to a woman with one of those names, the only thing they're going to be calling you is Dork.
 

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Choose wiser. In 6 months time disco might go out of style.
 

Rebound Material

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since youre a drummer how about...

- drum stick?
- beat stick?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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