"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whats a genuine way to find out how attractive you are?

cola

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I'm just curious how attractive I am. I can't ask females I interact with on a day to day basis because they'll read it as insecurity but its not if I'm not the most attractive guy in the world I don't care. I just want to know how I match up.. some changes I could make..
I've had females come out the blue and tell me how handsome I was.. (usually older or slightly out of my peer group) and I also had a girl at the club be like.. "eew" when I tryed to grind on her.. so with thoes two examples is it safed to say I'm average? Lol..

Anyway I don't want to ask friends because they won't be brutally honest and I want brutal honesty and I don't want to post my picture on here because of anonymity.. so what's an alternative?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mikel

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If your a good looking guy you will know. Girls will be more interested in you, tell you you are cute(which is the same as hot, unless you five foot tall and weigh 400 pounds or just resemble a stuffed animal.) Ask friends, they wont care to tell you. If any of the females you interact with are strictly just friends, then ask them. Who cares if you they are just friends, if you cant be insecure around friends I dont know who you can be insecure around. No-one is superman. If anything they will be a little nice about.

Another way to see how hott you are, is by how hott the girls you've dated on average are.

BTW, what has happened to hot or not. It use to be cool to check it out..it seems like 60% of the girls on there are actually cross-dressing men.

Are you short? Skinny? Bald?
 
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