"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whats a genuine way to find out how attractive you are?

cola

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I'm just curious how attractive I am. I can't ask females I interact with on a day to day basis because they'll read it as insecurity but its not if I'm not the most attractive guy in the world I don't care. I just want to know how I match up.. some changes I could make..
I've had females come out the blue and tell me how handsome I was.. (usually older or slightly out of my peer group) and I also had a girl at the club be like.. "eew" when I tryed to grind on her.. so with thoes two examples is it safed to say I'm average? Lol..

Anyway I don't want to ask friends because they won't be brutally honest and I want brutal honesty and I don't want to post my picture on here because of anonymity.. so what's an alternative?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mikel

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If your a good looking guy you will know. Girls will be more interested in you, tell you you are cute(which is the same as hot, unless you five foot tall and weigh 400 pounds or just resemble a stuffed animal.) Ask friends, they wont care to tell you. If any of the females you interact with are strictly just friends, then ask them. Who cares if you they are just friends, if you cant be insecure around friends I dont know who you can be insecure around. No-one is superman. If anything they will be a little nice about.

Another way to see how hott you are, is by how hott the girls you've dated on average are.

BTW, what has happened to hot or not. It use to be cool to check it out..it seems like 60% of the girls on there are actually cross-dressing men.

Are you short? Skinny? Bald?
 
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