"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats a DJ's preferred environment???

56andre

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This is a little DJ survey

I want to know what’s a fellow DJ’s favourite environment for approaching and why? If you have a scenario it would be good to put into perspective.

Personally I like the public arena because that’s when women’s b1tch shields are down & are caught with the element of surprise.

For instance, I approached a lovely young lady whilst she was picking out some shoes, was like this:

Whilst she was trying on some shoes

56andre: “They look good”

HB: State of processing what the fvck is going on, had that look on her face like she witnessed a murder or got slapped in the face, you know that one!

........5 second pause.....................

HB: (BLUFFING!!!) Thank you

56andre: What’s your size.............

I like the element of surprise, and the unpredictability of it all! Ended up getting her to try some shoes on, and she let me put on a pair for her, and then it went from there..............

So what’s a fellow DJ’s preferred approaching environment? Why? And If you have a scenario, that would be good to put as a perspective.

Thanks,

56andre out!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lexdiamond20

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56andre said:
56andre: What’s your size.............
Think you ruined the approach with that question. I'm not sure what I would have asked after your first question but that definitely wouldn't be my next. Think that's pretty close to asking "whats your weight"?
 

56andre

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lexdiamond20 said:
Think you ruined the approach with that question. I'm not sure what I would have asked after your first question but that definitely wouldn't be my next. Think that's pretty close to asking "whats your weight"?
HELL NO, asking a shoe size as opposed to weight are completely different dimensions, try to convince me otherwise!
 

ALPHAROMEO

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the street the shopping mall
again i feel at home asking for directions so the street d be my favorite environment ( anchoring not in the NLP sense )

again instead of checking out my info on GOOGLES i ask the women on the street or in the supermarket
" do you know about this particular cheese ? IS IT MATURE OR NOT MATURE ENOUGH?

IF YOU HAD YOUR BOSS COMING FOR DINNER WOULD YOU PUT IT ON YOUR CHEESE TRAY ?

IS IT FATTENING I VE SEEN A LOT OF FATSOES AROUND HERE?


neg her c/f her a lot ( i alwaus use the same two negs whatever )

in other words the environment must b the place when you feel right

and at home !!!! your questions must seem natural !!!!!
 

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I prefer anywhere non alarming and where their egos aren't up.

For example, the club's where women got start ego-stroking themselves when every horny dude's eyeball glues to them.

But then again, a real DJ can cruise under any environment. I prefer areas that are conversational friendly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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