"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats a "5" in your town?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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those are 2's and 3s where im from


except the second link you posted, those girls are not to bad...5.5
 

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First picture would be considered a 5. Or the last picture with the girl on the very right.

-Scars
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd say the girl on the right in the 3rd pic is at least a 6 judging by her body shot in that 4th pic.
The girl on the right in the second pic is pretty cute IMO. I'd give her a 7.
 

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Dude if you are looking for white or asian like in your pics. Come to arizona move tempe area walk down mill or go by asu campus. You would see as many sexy white *****es who are for most part sluts. Its asu its know for students being in the porn industry and its top ten party school. just saying that bleach blond would be a five but the rest of those women would be look over so fast it wouldn't even be funny. Its like if you want black women you atl ny or det. latin mia or southern cali. my two cents
 

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^ I went to ASU during their "home coming" (by accident), and my god, there was beautiful woman walking around everywhere.

I kind of regret not going to college.

-Scars
 

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damn Solo, 5s? lol some of those girls get more credit than that! If those are 5s than I wish I could pull 5s a lot easier!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alex DeLarge said:
I'd say the girl on the right in the 3rd pic is at least a 6 judging by her body shot in that 4th pic.
The girl on the right in the second pic is pretty cute IMO. I'd give her a 7.
either you dont know your right from your left or you like big fat white whales:nono:
 

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Borknagar said:
damn Solo, 5s? lol some of those girls get more credit than that! If those are 5s than I wish I could pull 5s a lot easier!
Your right not all of them are 5's some are 6-7's, on top of that a lot of girls in Minneapolis are photogenic so either they look a point or two better in real life or worse

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc51-f40.jpg
6.5-7 in the black with that body pic if shes got a ass she is a solid 7 in my book

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc51-f39.jpg
The Asian broad is a 6 but if she got ass she would go up a point :D

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc53-f16.jpg
chick in black is cute and there is something about the chick in the purple i've always been a fan of the girl next door look

@Aura--yes sir we sure do, Thank God for the "U" if it wasn't for that we would be in the land of the wilderbeast, any giving night being in a high end venue I run into models all the time lol


http://thesoloist1.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/new.jpg
^^some chicks I know a few of them are models, etc.

http://hoopeduponline.com/wp-content/gallery/twin_cities_twins/twin_cities_twins1.jpg
^^^I went to high school with these chicks they have blossomed out a lot, too bad I didn't have game back then :(

http://www.nowthatimon.com/wp-conte...-blue-and-gery-lingerie-for-show-magazine.jpg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7CrbLL3fMI
 
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irocknike23 said:
either you dont know your right from your left or you like big fat white whales:nono:
he's talking about the right girl in pic 3 = middle girl in pic 4.
I'd give her around 6 too, hard to say from these pics.

Middle girl in pic 6 is definitely more than a 5. Could be a 7.
 

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That girl's fat to you? Maybe I'd have similar views if I was in LA everyday lol.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone has their preference man. I'll take a curvy girl over a really skinny girl any day. And by curvy.. I'm not talking BBW like all the stupid fat b1tches that call themselves curvy. I'm talking about a girl with a set of hips that's in shape.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
That girl's fat to you? Maybe I'd have similar views if I was in LA everyday lol.
those girls you pointed out were fat and ugly, the girls they were standing next to were better(not much at least they wernt fat) thats why I said are you sure you know your right from your left

and i guess you would have diffent views if you lived here

what I noticed is states like Minnesota, and Iowa and Wisconsi-all those northern states have a lot of fat white broads and if thats all you got than i guess theres attraction. its like the your stuck on an island with me theory
 

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LA is massively overrated as a hotbed of beautiful women. Most are plain, working class hispanic women who have children very early in their lives.

There are small clusters of pretty party girls in melrose; but the rich pretty jet setters are largely traveling in exclusive social circles and are out of town very often traveling to exclusive events in Miami, NYC, etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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