"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whats a "5" in your town?

Solomon

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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those are 2's and 3s where im from


except the second link you posted, those girls are not to bad...5.5
 

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Scars

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First picture would be considered a 5. Or the last picture with the girl on the very right.

-Scars
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd say the girl on the right in the 3rd pic is at least a 6 judging by her body shot in that 4th pic.
The girl on the right in the second pic is pretty cute IMO. I'd give her a 7.
 

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Dude if you are looking for white or asian like in your pics. Come to arizona move tempe area walk down mill or go by asu campus. You would see as many sexy white *****es who are for most part sluts. Its asu its know for students being in the porn industry and its top ten party school. just saying that bleach blond would be a five but the rest of those women would be look over so fast it wouldn't even be funny. Its like if you want black women you atl ny or det. latin mia or southern cali. my two cents
 

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^ I went to ASU during their "home coming" (by accident), and my god, there was beautiful woman walking around everywhere.

I kind of regret not going to college.

-Scars
 

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damn Solo, 5s? lol some of those girls get more credit than that! If those are 5s than I wish I could pull 5s a lot easier!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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irocknike23

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Alex DeLarge said:
I'd say the girl on the right in the 3rd pic is at least a 6 judging by her body shot in that 4th pic.
The girl on the right in the second pic is pretty cute IMO. I'd give her a 7.
either you dont know your right from your left or you like big fat white whales:nono:
 

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Borknagar said:
damn Solo, 5s? lol some of those girls get more credit than that! If those are 5s than I wish I could pull 5s a lot easier!
Your right not all of them are 5's some are 6-7's, on top of that a lot of girls in Minneapolis are photogenic so either they look a point or two better in real life or worse

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc51-f40.jpg
6.5-7 in the black with that body pic if shes got a ass she is a solid 7 in my book

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc51-f39.jpg
The Asian broad is a 6 but if she got ass she would go up a point :D

http://www.twincitiesnightclubs.com/photos/full10/tcnc53-f16.jpg
chick in black is cute and there is something about the chick in the purple i've always been a fan of the girl next door look

@Aura--yes sir we sure do, Thank God for the "U" if it wasn't for that we would be in the land of the wilderbeast, any giving night being in a high end venue I run into models all the time lol


http://thesoloist1.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/new.jpg
^^some chicks I know a few of them are models, etc.

http://hoopeduponline.com/wp-content/gallery/twin_cities_twins/twin_cities_twins1.jpg
^^^I went to high school with these chicks they have blossomed out a lot, too bad I didn't have game back then :(

http://www.nowthatimon.com/wp-conte...-blue-and-gery-lingerie-for-show-magazine.jpg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7CrbLL3fMI
 
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irocknike23 said:
either you dont know your right from your left or you like big fat white whales:nono:
he's talking about the right girl in pic 3 = middle girl in pic 4.
I'd give her around 6 too, hard to say from these pics.

Middle girl in pic 6 is definitely more than a 5. Could be a 7.
 

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That girl's fat to you? Maybe I'd have similar views if I was in LA everyday lol.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone has their preference man. I'll take a curvy girl over a really skinny girl any day. And by curvy.. I'm not talking BBW like all the stupid fat b1tches that call themselves curvy. I'm talking about a girl with a set of hips that's in shape.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
That girl's fat to you? Maybe I'd have similar views if I was in LA everyday lol.
those girls you pointed out were fat and ugly, the girls they were standing next to were better(not much at least they wernt fat) thats why I said are you sure you know your right from your left

and i guess you would have diffent views if you lived here

what I noticed is states like Minnesota, and Iowa and Wisconsi-all those northern states have a lot of fat white broads and if thats all you got than i guess theres attraction. its like the your stuck on an island with me theory
 

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LA is massively overrated as a hotbed of beautiful women. Most are plain, working class hispanic women who have children very early in their lives.

There are small clusters of pretty party girls in melrose; but the rich pretty jet setters are largely traveling in exclusive social circles and are out of town very often traveling to exclusive events in Miami, NYC, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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