Boilermaker
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Do you know where they are now ? 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whatever happened to STR8UP, Iqqi, Latinoman?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KarmaSutra
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Blasts from the past.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Boilermaker,
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
ThunderMaverick
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Correction: Iqqi does what she usually does; leaves annoying and pointless replies.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
KarmaSutra
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'Dish texted me to come out last Friday but I was already under obligation.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
tell star8up backbraker said what's up. i miss him here.
BuckeyeBrigadier
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I really miss STR8UP's insightful posts on wealth. He really changed the way I looked at money. Wish he would come back and post more.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear All,
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
ST8 was pretty fed up with the community, and many of his posts were very cynical in nature. I certainly had a few words on his R/E speculation thread, but a part of me still hopes he is succeeding with his new venture. As for iqqi, i could have swore they are still posting here...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.