Boilermaker
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Do you know where they are now ? 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Whatever happened to STR8UP, Iqqi, Latinoman?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KarmaSutra
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Blasts from the past.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Boilermaker,
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
ThunderMaverick
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Correction: Iqqi does what she usually does; leaves annoying and pointless replies.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KarmaSutra
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'Dish texted me to come out last Friday but I was already under obligation.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
tell star8up backbraker said what's up. i miss him here.
BuckeyeBrigadier
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I really miss STR8UP's insightful posts on wealth. He really changed the way I looked at money. Wish he would come back and post more.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear All,
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
ST8 was pretty fed up with the community, and many of his posts were very cynical in nature. I certainly had a few words on his R/E speculation thread, but a part of me still hopes he is succeeding with his new venture. As for iqqi, i could have swore they are still posting here...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.