Boilermaker
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Do you know where they are now ? 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Whatever happened to STR8UP, Iqqi, Latinoman?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KarmaSutra
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Blasts from the past.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
I know Brother STR8UP is kickin' ass.
The rest are old news.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Boilermaker,
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
Iqqi posted the day before you did....TM's post about his emotions.
ThunderMaverick
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Correction: Iqqi does what she usually does; leaves annoying and pointless replies.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
Latinoman was one of the more "useful" posters here. I miss him.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
KarmaSutra
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'Dish texted me to come out last Friday but I was already under obligation.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
We need to coordinate another Central Florida round table.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
tell star8up backbraker said what's up. i miss him here.
BuckeyeBrigadier
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I really miss STR8UP's insightful posts on wealth. He really changed the way I looked at money. Wish he would come back and post more.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear All,
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
Yeah Straight Eight was good value,even Sticky showed amazing resilience in the face of overwhelming hostility,Good on Ya Mate,Aussies like a Bird with fire in her belly.
ST8 was pretty fed up with the community, and many of his posts were very cynical in nature. I certainly had a few words on his R/E speculation thread, but a part of me still hopes he is succeeding with his new venture. As for iqqi, i could have swore they are still posting here...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.