mysterymanelp
Don Juan
Has a female ever told you... Sometimes you can't always act on feelings you gotta think about the other people that are also involved...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what???
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Has a female ever told you... Sometimes you can't always act on feelings you gotta think about the other people that are also involved...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maybe not those exact words. Perhaps something like "Hey that looks like a nice place to stop." Dirty looks as I drive on past.
Since when have women not acted on feelings? After a crash course in Vulcan logic? I suppose you are going to tell us all here in this "mature" man's forum that she was trying to tell you that she is horny for you but has to think about someone else she is also feeling horny towards. Her statement I am afraid, is quite illogical in any event. We can't act on feelings because of our feelings about other people who are involved. See my point?
Since when have women not acted on feelings? After a crash course in Vulcan logic? I suppose you are going to tell us all here in this "mature" man's forum that she was trying to tell you that she is horny for you but has to think about someone else she is also feeling horny towards. Her statement I am afraid, is quite illogical in any event. We can't act on feelings because of our feelings about other people who are involved. See my point?
Heathscythe
Don Juan
Gee, I don't know dude. Are you a Jesus man? Or are you a no man? What would you like done to you. The way i see it, if a chick is involved, back off.
Heathscythe
Don Juan
try...
Oh yeah, and stop reading Bukowski. Try the King James Bible.
Oh yeah, and stop reading Bukowski. Try the King James Bible.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you would think that at 27 you would already know you shouldnt act on every feeling anyhow.
if you feel its big enough to act on, then it probally is.
which makes you wonder why she doesnt want you to act on it, and there is no story to help us identify what is going on to give you any advise worth taking.
go with your gut.
if you feel its big enough to act on, then it probally is.
which makes you wonder why she doesnt want you to act on it, and there is no story to help us identify what is going on to give you any advise worth taking.
go with your gut.